where is ones pride.. where they try to win there child that they lost
custody too by still playing a sad song.. why do women forget their
child for the sake of being with a man.. when your child has problems
but you put your own needs infront of them what kind of leader are you..
i guess you want your child to do the same thing.. that to me is like
murder.. to a child.. i am sorry but i care about children and it upsets
me to stand by and watch someone take their to emotional death.. I loath
women that decide that there own needs come before their children.. i
have two daughters that are going to be respected becuase they are women
not a toy.. I post this to someone and you know who you are.. how dare
you do this to your daughter.. she deserves much better than you csn
ever give her.. i don't care if i get banned for this....

Well it is a sad thing that one does not put there kids
first and foremost. For our needs as adults can wait.
But the needs that our children need can not wait. At
times this same stiuation happens with men and women it's
never just one or the other. The one thing we should always
put before antything or anyone is our kids. They are our
future, our lives. They should be treated like a rare
DIAMOND!!! Cherished, loved and keep safe form all the harms.
t

i agree

i feel for all you women that were faced with choices that you didn't
ask for nor deserve.. but i will make a change in one little girls life
so she can be happy.. you pissed on the wrong fence post my dear..

i am coming and better belive it.....

I'm sorry LazyJ......... my heart breaks for all the children, and for
the dads and moms

I agree, with you all, when we had our children we made a commitment to
put them first in our lives, to keep them safe and protect them, to
raise them the best we could. No one ever said it would be easy, and it
certainly isn't, but it is well worth the work. Our kids are our future.

Gosh My children our my life, I am not perfect but i have always put
them first in all I do,,, They are my Number one Priority in life.
keeping them safe and showing them they are
loved no matter what,,, Children our the future its our jobs to set good
examples for them

wth?

Yes for the rewards we receive in the end are far
greater than anything we could ever think or dream
of. They are our world we should protect them with
our lives. What ever we must put asside is only a
small price to pay.

I can sympathize with lazy. My 3"s "mother" walked out on us 2 yrs ago.

are that many of my friends leaving or giving up tonight? hummm....

4 of them important to me!

There are a lot of ppl who mistreat their children.
It is crazy! I work in the hospital in a field where we see CPS
sometimes--they seem to just place them back because they are so busy
with a lot of cases, too many to handle.

this one is not going to get away this time.. wanna play lets play.. but
when it comes to a child watch out mf i have zero, notta nothing
tolerance..

A person can not sit around and be lonely the rest of their life either,
I would never pic a lover over my kids, but I would iagine my kids would
not want to see me alone either, so I guess what I'm trying to say is...
if u are unhappy and lonely, the child doesn't need to see that either,
huh?

depends mach, if your kids not seeing you loney means seeing you with a
different girl/guy every week then that is not healthy for them.

mach shut up..! you have no idea.. but i have a feeling you soon will..

I agree with NurJoyce, not having your mom in your life, but seeing her
with different guys is really damaging to the child's mental health and
growth. Hurts them deeply to know mom picks being with men over being
with their own child.

npt saying that at all Joyce, I myself do not wish to rush no one in and
out of their lives, besides there is too many diseases out there to be
foolish! I was just saying, most single peps are lonely, heck that is
why we are on jsh, so, meeting someone new and developing a ne
relationship is not always wrong just because it did not work out, I
would imagine most peps would not let something that felt weak about in
front of their kids to begin with??