Didnt say you was man bashing(different guys from all around the world)Take things different as do woman.We all dont see eye to eye.But when we do we know it.Just saying emotions and feelings get involved sometime fast,slow,never.we are just two different genders

You know there's going to be a thread sometime soon from a guy asking what women want...

i've got the lotion

funny your original post, tells me my ex girlfriend still loves me, even though she left for the lack of love. I gave her pretty much all you say women desire, and I was left holding my broken heart in my hands.

again...


"Men want to know what women want and I am here to tell you it is how you make her feel. Secure, loved, wanted, sexy, cared for, cared about, etc... "

I say not... I say women want what everyone on earth wants.. happiness with a person that will love her as much as she loves him.

funny your original post, tells me my ex girlfriend still loves me, even though she left for the lack of love. I gave her pretty much all you say women desire, and I was left holding my broken heart in my hands.

Right!!!!!

Not all women are the same.

I just think it's funny cause they're constantly asking what women want. When you post what you want, they don't seem to get it.

I never saw it as setting up rules at all. I'm not sure why others are seeing it that way.

I think the guys who post those threads seem to be looking for a magic answer. Someone to tell them what ALL women want. It's just not going to happen.

I never saw it as setting up rules at all. I'm not sure why others are seeing it that way.

I think the guys who post those threads seem to be looking for a magic answer. Someone to tell them what ALL women want. It's just not going to happen.

funny your original post, tells me my ex girlfriend still loves me, even though she left for the lack of love. I gave her pretty much all you say women desire, and I was left holding my broken heart in my hands.

hmm yeah... show up.

Men keep asking what women want, why don't they respond to the believed triggers.

Men the reason you can't understand what makes us tick at this level is because women fall in love with the way a man makes them feel. No, not just during sex although that helps...lol

If you can help us to feel beloved, wanted, sexy, special, etc.. then you will be half way there. The other half of course is your reliablity, trustworthyness, etc...

I said help on the above paragraph because a woman needs to already feel these things on her own so she will not be too needy to put up with.

I'll try to give you men some examples and hopefully some of the other ladies here will do the same.

I like a positively attentive man, he notices people and things going on around him and has good things to say about them. This makes me feel like he cares about life and me. If he is negative about everything you always have to wonder what he is complaining about you when you aren't around. Not a good feeling. This is especially true if he is always negative about women in general. Even if you do not know her and he is referring to her as a whore by what she is wearing, a woman cannot feel good about it if she is of her right mind.

Even with the womens lib stuff, I can open doors for myself but it makes me feel special when he does it. Walking on the streetside of me when we are walking to protect me. Making sure all watch their language around me, not that I may not spout a cuss word on occasion but he makes sure I am not offended by others. Those gentlemanly qualities are a good way to make a lady feel special. We ladies know we can do it all ourselves but it is all about the way we feel.

Making sure I am okay by a phone call or asking me if we haven't spoken for a bit. Asking if I need help with the dishes or dusting or whatever, I will probably say no, but it is nice to have the ask. Makes us ladies feel like you care and what we do is important.

Being fair in considering time out with friends. If you spend time out with your friends consider that I need the same amount of time with mine. Also making time for our personal time. For example, "I am going to watch the game this afternoon but tonight I will be all yours, what would you like to do?" Makes us ladies feel important to you.

If you get angry and resort to name calling remember we will never forget what you said. Usually better if you can calm yourself and come at us with reason instead of hate. Just a thought here but how can you feel good around someone who recently referred to you as a ***** or a whore or any of the other choice names there are for women.

Okay ladies see you if you can think of more.

you see men this should come natural to us we shouldnt have to be reminded. the woman wants us to figure out what she wants NOT TO BE TOLD c'mon guys u should pat more attention to ur ladies and listen more!

Hope this is helpful. I am posting it as a helpful topic. I really hope it doesn't turn bad.