first off ive smoked for over half my life and been around it for the first half, i dont like to smoke i just do, no matter how many poeple i know that get sick or even die from it. i wish i could stop but? its one of the stupidest things anyone can do, thers nothin but bad to it. granted im a dump arss my self, i know.

but to ur q i realy dont want a cig smoker, ive been "tryin" (if u want to call it that) for a long time and dating another smoker makes it that much easier to keep smokin (if ther not tryin them selfs).

one of my exs hated smokin and as lame as it was gettin bitched at all the time, it was incouragement, could of had better, but non the less it did help.

and as far as pot i would love to meet some one that had the same or genral thoughts, but i do need some one thats goin to except the fact that im a major pot head and im prob always goin to b.

i know. kinda weird but it makes sence to me. but then agian i am single. lol