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MY BEST FRIEND IS BLISSFULLY IN LOVE, AND POSTS HER MOODS AND LITTLE COMMENTS EVERYWHERE ABOUT BEING IN LOVE, ETC.
WHEN I NEED TO TALK TO HER, SHE'S ALWAYS TEXTING OR MESSING AROUND ON HER CELL PHONE. I'VE RECENTLY DISTANCED MYSELF. I'M HAPPY THAT SHE'S FOUND SOMEONE, BUT I CAN'T HELP BUT FEEL ALITTLE ENVIOUS OF HER. do you think i'm being a bad friend for distancing myself? i hardly think she notices |
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she can probably still HEAR you
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I don't know if I would say bad but it seems you are being a "fair weather" friend. When someone falls in love, they tend to be a wee bit distracted. As a friend, you should understand and still be supportive. If she never has time for you anymore, tell her how you're feeling and you both can find "girl time".
You will find someone and wouldn't you love to have a friend to share those feelings with? 
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she can probably still HEAR you 
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MY BEST FRIEND IS BLISSFULLY IN LOVE, AND POSTS HER MOODS AND LITTLE COMMENTS EVERYWHERE ABOUT BEING IN LOVE, ETC. WHEN I NEED TO TALK TO HER, SHE'S ALWAYS TEXTING OR MESSING AROUND ON HER CELL PHONE. I'VE RECENTLY DISTANCED MYSELF. I'M HAPPY THAT SHE'S FOUND SOMEONE, BUT I CAN'T HELP BUT FEEL ALITTLE ENVIOUS OF HER. do you think i'm being a bad friend for distancing myself? i hardly think she notices  ps.....do you want my phone number,and maybe you will fall in love
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 I'm tired of being a 3rd 5th or 7th wheel
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I'm tired of being a 3rd 5th or 7th wheel
I would invite you to be my unicycle but I don't like your picture. Now if you were a normal guy with a moustache I might consider it.
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Edited by
Jmsal_23
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Tue 07/14/09 02:41 PM
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I don't know if I would say bad but it seems you are being a "fair weather" friend. When someone falls in love, they tend to be a wee bit distracted. As a friend, you should understand and still be supportive. If she never has time for you anymore, tell her how you're feeling and you both can find "girl time". You will find someone and wouldn't you love to have a friend to share those feelings with?
Yeah i miss our girl time...I'll always be there for her, weather it be catching her if she falls, or supporting her in her new adventure. I'm entitled to be silly once in awhile |
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I'm tired of being a 3rd 5th or 7th wheel
amen being single when your friends aren't feels like there isn't enough love in the world to go around. . . . |
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maybe she isnt noticing but if youve been a good friend and now shes ignoring you thats rough just sit back and let her slowly come back to you im sure she will when she needs you just be happy for her keep your distance and see what she does
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I'm tired of being a 3rd 5th or 7th wheel
I would invite you to be my unicycle but I don't like your picture. Now if you were a normal guy with a moustache I might consider it.
Lol, everytime i put that pic up, my profile views go through the roof, regular pic = ghost town! |
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Edited by
Jmsal_23
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Tue 07/14/09 02:46 PM
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I'm tired of being a 3rd 5th or 7th wheel
amen being single when your friends aren't feels like there isn't enough love in the world to go around. . . . LOL yup...i feel left out  where's my love
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I'm tired of being a 3rd 5th or 7th wheel
amen being single when your friends aren't feels like there isn't enough love in the world to go around. . . . There are some nights out etc. that i won't go out with them because i am single,, it's almost embarrassing . |
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jealous women are HAWT!
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time start runnin game yourself
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It is hard when you feel neglected by a friend but you must know from your own experience how time and emotionally consuming those early days of new love are. I predict that given time your friends new love relationship will find it's natural place in her life and she will once again have time for the rest of her life, including you. Try to be happy for her, give her time, understand that what you are feeling is normal too. No one is at fault here so don't beat up on either one of you.
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Hey, friendships are like ocean waves. They roll in, splash on the beach for a while and roll back out. Then they roll back into the beach again. If she's a real friend she'll be back. If she's not you aren't missing anything special.
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She probably does need a little extra space right now. I know how you feel though. It is tough not to hurt a little when you see others finding happiness and is seems like there's none for you.
Your relationship with your friend will probably wane for a while then oscillate, and then settle in a new groove. I'd say to do your best to be supportive and happy for her. Your time will come! |
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If she's a true friend she will realize
With time How important you are in her life Men come and go Freinds are forever! |
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Edited by
RKISIT
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Wed 07/15/09 04:20 PM
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men come and go...nice pun
anyway to the OP....look if it doesn't work out with the guy you'll be the first one she calls......if it does work out then she'll call you for a "girls night out"
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