Don't worry... You'll get custody... Your the mom and judges ALWAYS pick the mom unless she's really messed up and I can see you seem like a well fit mother

I chose that title cz thats how it feels. Like i said we looked at heaps of houses, at first (afta tha initial 6months) he said he wantd 2 save more money. Bou 9 months later we bought land an picked a house 2 build went thru all our selections bought all our furniture an then he pulled tha pin rite b4 construction coz he decided he didnt want 2 live in that area. So we put our land bak on tha market an looked 4 something else. 4 tha record my kids werent suffering cz mummy was in love i was doing wot i was doing 4 them, do they deserve 2 grow up witout a father?? No they dont. I tried evrythng i could 2 keep us all a family.

Thanx nelnel all seems 2 b going my way so far

Of course you did, like so many of us. But you have to know when enough is enough. It's all about mind games by now.

Do they deserve to not have there own room because there mommy is in love? Do they deserve three years of that? Do they not dexerve there own space as well? You are an adult you can decide to do what you want to do. But children cannot. And it is not fair for them to suffer just because mommy is in love. Children are ALWAYS first in my opinion. And if you knew he was a mommy's boy when you met him then you are at fault.

I never mentioned your kids suffering nor lacking in anything (just clearing that up).

What are you going to do now?

I was trying 2 buy a house 4 my kids bcoz they come first they were in no way suffering sharing a room domestic violence, starving cz mummys a heroin addict an spends al her money on tha next hit,not having a home 2 go 2 or warm bed 2 sleep in, thats a suffering child so if im at fault cz i stayed wit him trying 2 buy a house 4 my kids then so be it. Wot am i guna do now? Start again i stil wana own a home 4 my kids...stability if u get wot i mean im jus starting from scratch is all bu il get there!

And yet again, I wonder what the point of love is if all it seems to do is make you miserable...

And clearly i didnt no he was a mummys boy til he left us like i said we were building we bought our stuff we seemed 2 b going in that direction so if id thought this would happen i wouldve been long gone long ago

Six months to three years is a rather noticeable jump, don't you think?

Sorry, but you should have left at least after the first year of nothing happening on moving...

Your words:

Again we signed 2 buy he showed no signs of not doing wot he said until later. My kids were happy an exited bou havin our own home they were not suffering in any way

Maybe you should have broken up with him sooner, sure. But you're only dumb if you allow it to happen to you and your kids again. Support yourself and your children YOURSELF... a good man will come along in his own time. :)