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Does anyone have qualities that they are looking for in a partner that they think may be keeping them from hooking up??? such as myself.. looking for a non drinker. I have a thing about hypocrisy, causes me lots of problems. ![]() Then you don't want to meet guys in a Church!!! Maybe try getting one on Ebay! I have heard they sell a good man once in a while yeah i don't like religious people, either. i'm not looking for a man, so i'm good. |
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It's not a bad idea....thats why we are offered advaneced search options right? So we can be a little more picky to our likes and dislikes. I did it..... with all the options I chose I ended up with about 20 some matches. 5 of which have no pic & hardly any profile, 3 haven't been on the site in months, 1 hasn't been on in over a year, maybe a few of them I have seen around in the forums and even chatted with some. Maybe I'll "Just say Hi" to the rest. Ya never know!
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It's not a bad idea....thats why we are offered advaneced search options right? So we can be a little more picky to our likes and dislikes. I did it..... with all the options I chose I ended up with about 20 some matches. 5 of which have no pic & hardly any profile, 3 haven't been on the site in months, 1 hasn't been on in over a year, maybe a few of them I have seen around in the forums and even chatted with some. Maybe I'll "Just say Hi" to the rest. Ya never know! good luck ![]() |
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It's not a bad idea....thats why we are offered advaneced search options right? So we can be a little more picky to our likes and dislikes. I did it..... with all the options I chose I ended up with about 20 some matches. 5 of which have no pic & hardly any profile, 3 haven't been on the site in months, 1 hasn't been on in over a year, maybe a few of them I have seen around in the forums and even chatted with some. Maybe I'll "Just say Hi" to the rest. Ya never know! You're right! You never know and if you try you may like the results.. I think a lot of people should use your idea... ![]() |
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![]() ![]() yeah, that's usually what picky means. |
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It's not a bad idea....thats why we are offered advaneced search options right? So we can be a little more picky to our likes and dislikes. I did it..... with all the options I chose I ended up with about 20 some matches. 5 of which have no pic & hardly any profile, 3 haven't been on the site in months, 1 hasn't been on in over a year, maybe a few of them I have seen around in the forums and even chatted with some. Maybe I'll "Just say Hi" to the rest. Ya never know! You're right! You never know and if you try you may like the results.. I think a lot of people should use your idea... ![]() Awwwwwwe T.Y!..... even though it was'nt quite my idea . It all started with that goofy email this morning ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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It's not a bad idea....thats why we are offered advaneced search options right? So we can be a little more picky to our likes and dislikes. I did it..... with all the options I chose I ended up with about 20 some matches. 5 of which have no pic & hardly any profile, 3 haven't been on the site in months, 1 hasn't been on in over a year, maybe a few of them I have seen around in the forums and even chatted with some. Maybe I'll "Just say Hi" to the rest. Ya never know! You're right! You never know and if you try you may like the results.. I think a lot of people should use your idea... ![]() Awwwwwwe T.Y!..... even though it was'nt quite my idea . It all started with that goofy email this morning ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Its good to have standards but they shouldnt be physical. Thats already in play to to pheromones. but I have to admit I want someone with morals.....that is a big want. |
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Its good to have standards but they shouldnt be physical. Thats already in play to to pheromones. but I have to admit I want someone with morals.....that is a big want. The problem with pheromones Def, is that they are masked by many things these days.. Perfumes, soaps, colognes, birth control pills.. I think that we must be physically attracted to someone but what attracts each of us may be different.. Physical attraction isn't always looks.. I have found someone attractive that others haven't and sometimes someone might not have been that attractive to me when I first saw them but I talked to them and got to know them and I became attracted to the whole package.... |
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Sun 07/12/09 04:56 PM
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Its good to have standards but they shouldnt be physical. Thats already in play to to pheromones. but I have to admit I want someone with morals.....that is a big want. The problem with pheromones Def, is that they are masked by many things these days.. Perfumes, soaps, colognes, birth control pills.. I think that we must be physically attracted to someone but what attracts each of us may be different.. Physical attraction isn't always looks.. I have found someone attractive that others haven't and sometimes someone might not have been that attractive to me when I first saw them but I talked to them and got to know them and I became attracted to the whole package.... Women can totally do that, but a man cant. If a man is not attracted to me, he is not going to be no matter how great I am. Been there and tried it...it is no fun. ![]() |
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Its good to have standards but they shouldnt be physical. Thats already in play to to pheromones. but I have to admit I want someone with morals.....that is a big want. Sad to say people with morals are few & far between these days! |
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Its good to have standards but they shouldnt be physical. Thats already in play to to pheromones. but I have to admit I want someone with morals.....that is a big want. The problem with pheromones Def, is that they are masked by many things these days.. Perfumes, soaps, colognes, birth control pills.. I think that we must be physically attracted to someone but what attracts each of us may be different.. Physical attraction isn't always looks.. I have found someone attractive that others haven't and sometimes someone might not have been that attractive to me when I first saw them but I talked to them and got to know them and I became attracted to the whole package.... Women can totally do that, but a man cant. If a man is not attracted to me, he is not going to be no matter how great I am. Been there and tried it...it is no fun. ![]() I understand what you're saying.. I think those experiences just prove you've met shallow people, guys have the same problem... I find it hard to think men aren't physically attracted to you, you're a very pretty lady... |
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Its good to have standards but they shouldnt be physical. Thats already in play to to pheromones. but I have to admit I want someone with morals.....that is a big want. The problem with pheromones Def, is that they are masked by many things these days.. Perfumes, soaps, colognes, birth control pills.. I think that we must be physically attracted to someone but what attracts each of us may be different.. Physical attraction isn't always looks.. I have found someone attractive that others haven't and sometimes someone might not have been that attractive to me when I first saw them but I talked to them and got to know them and I became attracted to the whole package.... Women can totally do that, but a man cant. If a man is not attracted to me, he is not going to be no matter how great I am. Been there and tried it...it is no fun. ![]() I understand what you're saying.. I think those experiences just prove you've met shallow people, guys have the same problem... I find it hard to think men aren't physically attracted to you, you're a very pretty lady... Thank you but it happens. Im am pretty but dont have alot of "personality" lol....men have probs with that |
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Its good to have standards but they shouldnt be physical. Thats already in play to to pheromones. but I have to admit I want someone with morals.....that is a big want. The problem with pheromones Def, is that they are masked by many things these days.. Perfumes, soaps, colognes, birth control pills.. I think that we must be physically attracted to someone but what attracts each of us may be different.. Physical attraction isn't always looks.. I have found someone attractive that others haven't and sometimes someone might not have been that attractive to me when I first saw them but I talked to them and got to know them and I became attracted to the whole package.... Women can totally do that, but a man cant. If a man is not attracted to me, he is not going to be no matter how great I am. Been there and tried it...it is no fun. ![]() I understand what you're saying.. I think those experiences just prove you've met shallow people, guys have the same problem... I find it hard to think men aren't physically attracted to you, you're a very pretty lady... Thank you but it happens. Im am pretty but dont have alot of "personality" lol....men have probs with that Well then they don't know you that well... I've seen a lot of personality since I've noticed your posts... I wonder how much personality these men have and if they mean "you don't have "cleavage" personality"... |
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Its good to have standards but they shouldnt be physical. Thats already in play to to pheromones. but I have to admit I want someone with morals.....that is a big want. The problem with pheromones Def, is that they are masked by many things these days.. Perfumes, soaps, colognes, birth control pills.. I think that we must be physically attracted to someone but what attracts each of us may be different.. Physical attraction isn't always looks.. I have found someone attractive that others haven't and sometimes someone might not have been that attractive to me when I first saw them but I talked to them and got to know them and I became attracted to the whole package.... Women can totally do that, but a man cant. If a man is not attracted to me, he is not going to be no matter how great I am. Been there and tried it...it is no fun. ![]() I understand what you're saying.. I think those experiences just prove you've met shallow people, guys have the same problem... I find it hard to think men aren't physically attracted to you, you're a very pretty lady... Thank you but it happens. Im am pretty but dont have alot of "personality" lol....men have probs with that Well then they don't know you that well... I've seen a lot of personality since I've noticed your posts... I wonder how much personality these men have and if they mean "you don't have "cleavage" personality"... Your the Winner. Yes I am lacking cleavage. If your not attracted your not attracted. Majority of men Need that. It genetics..like women to tall strong men |
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Its good to have standards but they shouldnt be physical. Thats already in play to to pheromones. but I have to admit I want someone with morals.....that is a big want. The problem with pheromones Def, is that they are masked by many things these days.. Perfumes, soaps, colognes, birth control pills.. I think that we must be physically attracted to someone but what attracts each of us may be different.. Physical attraction isn't always looks.. I have found someone attractive that others haven't and sometimes someone might not have been that attractive to me when I first saw them but I talked to them and got to know them and I became attracted to the whole package.... Women can totally do that, but a man cant. If a man is not attracted to me, he is not going to be no matter how great I am. Been there and tried it...it is no fun. ![]() I understand what you're saying.. I think those experiences just prove you've met shallow people, guys have the same problem... I find it hard to think men aren't physically attracted to you, you're a very pretty lady... Thank you but it happens. Im am pretty but dont have alot of "personality" lol....men have probs with that Well then they don't know you that well... I've seen a lot of personality since I've noticed your posts... I wonder how much personality these men have and if they mean "you don't have "cleavage" personality"... Your the Winner. Yes I am lacking cleavage. If your not attracted your not attracted. Majority of men Need that. It genetics..like women to tall strong men I had a small cleavage most of my life.. If that's what a man is looking for then he should go to a go-go bar b/c he's not looking for much else.. Any man that ever says to me or in front of me "I like big boobs or I'm a boob man" well they're not taken as more than a perv in my book... |
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Its good to have standards but they shouldnt be physical. Thats already in play to to pheromones. but I have to admit I want someone with morals.....that is a big want. The problem with pheromones Def, is that they are masked by many things these days.. Perfumes, soaps, colognes, birth control pills.. I think that we must be physically attracted to someone but what attracts each of us may be different.. Physical attraction isn't always looks.. I have found someone attractive that others haven't and sometimes someone might not have been that attractive to me when I first saw them but I talked to them and got to know them and I became attracted to the whole package.... Women can totally do that, but a man cant. If a man is not attracted to me, he is not going to be no matter how great I am. Been there and tried it...it is no fun. ![]() I understand what you're saying.. I think those experiences just prove you've met shallow people, guys have the same problem... I find it hard to think men aren't physically attracted to you, you're a very pretty lady... Thank you but it happens. Im am pretty but dont have alot of "personality" lol....men have probs with that Well then they don't know you that well... I've seen a lot of personality since I've noticed your posts... I wonder how much personality these men have and if they mean "you don't have "cleavage" personality"... Your the Winner. Yes I am lacking cleavage. If your not attracted your not attracted. Majority of men Need that. It genetics..like women to tall strong men I had a small cleavage most of my life.. If that's what a man is looking for then he should go to a go-go bar b/c he's not looking for much else.. Any man that ever says to me or in front of me "I like big boobs or I'm a boob man" well they're not taken as more than a perv in my book... They dont have to say it....just look in the garages...lol I will never tell someone they are ignorant, but Ive talked to many men that still think in the 40's. Who isnt a little Perv....lol Id fibbing if I said I wasnt. |
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Well of course I am as well, but I meant the rude kind that doesn't see a person for their brain or goodness just for the lumps in their suits/sweaters...
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Its good to have standards but they shouldnt be physical. Thats already in play to to pheromones. but I have to admit I want someone with morals.....that is a big want. The problem with pheromones Def, is that they are masked by many things these days.. Perfumes, soaps, colognes, birth control pills.. I think that we must be physically attracted to someone but what attracts each of us may be different.. Physical attraction isn't always looks.. I have found someone attractive that others haven't and sometimes someone might not have been that attractive to me when I first saw them but I talked to them and got to know them and I became attracted to the whole package.... Women can totally do that, but a man cant. If a man is not attracted to me, he is not going to be no matter how great I am. Been there and tried it...it is no fun. ![]() I understand what you're saying.. I think those experiences just prove you've met shallow people, guys have the same problem... I find it hard to think men aren't physically attracted to you, you're a very pretty lady... Thank you but it happens. Im am pretty but dont have alot of "personality" lol....men have probs with that Maybe the men you are going for have a problem with that! |
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