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Topic: So I finally did it...
RKISIT's photo
Thu 07/09/09 01:41 PM

I finally did not answer my mans text...I know it sounds like a game but I think hes just using me...I figure if he really likes me for me then he will call again or show up at my work...just tired of being used.
so is a carpenters hammer but you never hear it complain:smile:

mry's photo
Fri 07/10/09 05:11 AM
Well you can all say what you want...but I ignored another text last night...he was treating me like crap...what did I learn? I am learning that the man I care about IS thinking about me...so maybe there is hope. I just feel sometimes some men need to feel like they are losing something good before they can appriciate it...and it sucks to have to do this but I can tell you just asking him to pay attention to me would have done no good...it would have just boosted his ego...

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 07/10/09 05:15 AM
What?????

He sounds like an abuser

Mental abuse

And you seem to enjoy it!!

Not for nothing........

oldsage's photo
Fri 07/10/09 05:19 AM
Sounds like a controler to me.
I am sure there is alot more that goes with this.
Mry is the only one that knows it all, plus this is her situation to handle, in any manner she choses.
As part of our family, we need to support her, not chastise.

Mry, do as yo see fit.

mry's photo
Fri 07/10/09 05:20 AM

What?????

He sounds like an abuser

Mental abuse

And you seem to enjoy it!!

Not for nothing........


LOL...Hes not an abuser...he just a very stubborn man...

mry's photo
Fri 07/10/09 05:24 AM
The thing to keep in mind here is the fact that I used to answer all his calls...and he took me for granted...now its just more interesting to him...yes he is trying to be controling...so many men are...and sometimes we women just need to steer things in another direction.

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 07/10/09 05:26 AM
Edited by Gossipmpm on Fri 07/10/09 05:27 AM

Sounds like a controler to me.
I am sure there is alot more that goes with this.
Mry is the only one that knows it all, plus this is her situation to handle, in any manner she choses.
As part of our family, we need to support her, not chastise.

Mry, do as yo see fit.


I wasn't chastising her at all

She put it out so im putting in is all

Sometimes I'm blunt. But that's me

The sentences "he treats me like crap but he IS thinking of me" speaks volumes

If ya don't want feedback don't put it out there! ( said with love)

mry's photo
Fri 07/10/09 05:30 AM
Its ok...I like everyones opinions...or I would not have put it out there...actually my girlfriend told me not to be so available to him...and by Gawd I think she might be right...bigsmile

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Fri 07/10/09 06:45 AM
flowerforyou

shoesmonkey's photo
Fri 07/10/09 07:01 AM

I guess I want him to know how it feels to not have a call returned...yeah hes always there but ONLY when HE feels like it.I have been afraid of the truth for some time now....
He probably doesn't care enough to know how it feel's. Think about that. If somebody played that game with you, that you really didn't care for, would it bother you or, even cross your mind? Stop wasting your effort's and, mind.flowerforyou :heart:

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