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Topic: To be ignorned
joycro53 Joined Sun 02/24/08 Posts: 309	Wed 07/08/09 06:16 PM
your a cutie, he's a fool...good luck..Mr. right will come along when you least expect it.... Thank you....it is hard, just can't forget him overnight or the good times we had. But I know you are right

Tootsweet13 Joined Sun 03/29/09 Posts: 2713	Wed 07/08/09 06:17 PM
Has anyone ever had a disagreement with the person they were dating and that person wouldn't call or talk with them for days? This man won't even tell me if its over or not, so I wait. This is the hardest thing I ever had to do, how do you cope? I have recently learned that the "silent treatment" or withholding love or affection is considered a form of emotional abuse.

4974 Joined Mon 01/19/09 Posts: 1621	Wed 07/08/09 06:18 PM
been there...and you know what...now he is the one suffering, and i have moved on... JUSTICE

joycro53 Joined Sun 02/24/08 Posts: 309	Wed 07/08/09 06:19 PM
It does hurt like hell. Not being able to talk or hear from him...its worse than anything I have been thru in a while.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Wed 07/08/09 06:19 PM
Has anyone ever had a disagreement with the person they were dating and that person wouldn't call or talk with them for days? This man won't even tell me if its over or not, so I wait. This is the hardest thing I ever had to do, how do you cope? It's over. Move along with your life.

joycro53 Joined Sun 02/24/08 Posts: 309	Wed 07/08/09 06:21 PM
Has anyone ever had a disagreement with the person they were dating and that person wouldn't call or talk with them for days? This man won't even tell me if its over or not, so I wait. This is the hardest thing I ever had to do, how do you cope? It's over. Move along with your life. I know you are all right, but it still hurts so much....I was alone for over two years then he came along and things were more than wonderful...then this. I have cried for a week.

4974 Joined Mon 01/19/09 Posts: 1621	Wed 07/08/09 06:22 PM
i feel for you....the best answer..you fall off get right back on. go on some dates, mingle, meet some new guys..this to shall pass. i promise

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Wed 07/08/09 06:24 PM
Has anyone ever had a disagreement with the person they were dating and that person wouldn't call or talk with them for days? This man won't even tell me if its over or not, so I wait. This is the hardest thing I ever had to do, how do you cope? It's over. Move along with your life. I know you are all right, but it still hurts so much....I was alone for over two years then he came along and things were more than wonderful...then this. I have cried for a week. Just dont let it make you bitter, been there done that and its not worth it. you will be fine Im sure you have been through worse

joycro53 Joined Sun 02/24/08 Posts: 309	Wed 07/08/09 06:26 PM
i feel for you....the best answer..you fall off get right back on. go on some dates, mingle, meet some new guys..this to shall pass. i promise Thanks so much for your caring words. Its nice to be able to talk about it without thinking I am the one who is wrong.

4974 Joined Mon 01/19/09 Posts: 1621	Wed 07/08/09 06:26 PM
when you feel sad, hit me up...you can vent to me.

joycro53 Joined Sun 02/24/08 Posts: 309	Wed 07/08/09 06:27 PM
Has anyone ever had a disagreement with the person they were dating and that person wouldn't call or talk with them for days? This man won't even tell me if its over or not, so I wait. This is the hardest thing I ever had to do, how do you cope? It's over. Move along with your life. I know you are all right, but it still hurts so much....I was alone for over two years then he came along and things were more than wonderful...then this. I have cried for a week. Just dont let it make you bitter, been there done that and its not worth it. you will be fine Im sure you have been through worse You are right, I have. This just caught me off guard, never expected this. He bought a home and is waiting to close, wanted me to move in when I was ready. All this gone now.

joycro53 Joined Sun 02/24/08 Posts: 309	Wed 07/08/09 06:28 PM
when you feel sad, hit me up...you can vent to me. You are very sweet, thanks.

directandwrite Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 6638	Wed 07/08/09 06:30 PM
Has anyone ever had a disagreement with the person they were dating and that person wouldn't call or talk with them for days? This man won't even tell me if its over or not, so I wait. This is the hardest thing I ever had to do, how do you cope? Okay I'm going to say this because I'm starting to notice a "trend" in it, even though, inevitably, someone will claim I am making a generalization, but I think this must be a guy thing....this is at least the third or fourth time I have heard/seen this done in the past month and it makes the woman very angry. My question is, why do you guys want to do this? If it's over or something is wrong, etc, can't you be men enough to come tell us or just say it instead of putting everything in freeze frame mode???

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Wed 07/08/09 06:52 PM
Has anyone ever had a disagreement with the person they were dating and that person wouldn't call or talk with them for days? This man won't even tell me if its over or not, so I wait. This is the hardest thing I ever had to do, how do you cope? Okay I'm going to say this because I'm starting to notice a "trend" in it, even though, inevitably, someone will claim I am making a generalization, but I think this must be a guy thing....this is at least the third or fourth time I have heard/seen this done in the past month and it makes the woman very angry. My question is, why do you guys want to do this? If it's over or something is wrong, etc, can't you be men enough to come tell us or just say it instead of putting everything in freeze frame mode??? try not to put us all in the same corner, when my lady friend walked out on me she wouldnt even pick up her phone when I called.. she just got a burr in her saddle and walked out

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Wed 07/08/09 06:56 PM
Its almost 5 months now, and he was the one who told me he loved me, and that I was so great for him....guess I was a fool. You haven't spoken for 5 mos or dated for 5 mos?

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Wed 07/08/09 06:56 PM
You pick up the phone make the call Ask "is it over?" Go from there....

directandwrite Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 6638	Wed 07/08/09 06:58 PM
You pick up the phone make the call Ask "is it over?" Go from there.... That's a swell idea but if you get his voicemail over and over again, and he never answers, then what???

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Wed 07/08/09 07:00 PM
You pick up the phone make the call Ask "is it over?" Go from there.... That's a swell idea but if you get his voicemail over and over again, and he never answers, then what??? Go directly to his door Keep a knockin If after a few days. You know it's over!

ReddBeans Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 6930	Wed 07/08/09 07:01 PM
Been there, done that, sportin the tshirt After a week of the 'silent treatment'. I figured alright then an reclaimed my singlehood. I don't play games an I refuse to participate in them

directandwrite Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 6638	Wed 07/08/09 07:02 PM
You pick up the phone make the call Ask "is it over?" Go from there.... That's a swell idea but if you get his voicemail over and over again, and he never answers, then what??? Go directly to his door Keep a knockin If after a few days. You know it's over! Sometimes it's not that simple...