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When I lost my cell, btw, my numbers were in my cell and no where else. 
Yeah, I'd be paralyzed if I lost my cell 
I did panic. 
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Girls take crap too literal these days. They should text you if they are not interested, instead of being retarded about it, and not give vague hints you have to wonder about. Those kinds of people need to go play into oncoming traffic. I agree with this (well, not the traffic part ). People should be upfront and honest. If you're busy, say so, if you're not interested, say so. It saves a lot of angst on both parts. Granted, once you say you're not interested and they keep contacting you, that a whole other topic
yeah that's what i was trying to tell him, it sounds good in theory to tell someone to just say i'm not interested. but once you do that, you open up the floodgates for stupidity- "why not?" "i'm a nice guy, you must be a b!tch cause you're not into me" and on and on. if i ignore someone they usually give up and go away. Exactly!!! 
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Sorry hun sounds like she wasn't as interested as she may have led on when there were a few drinks in her system. While everything you did may have been innocent in your eyes, she obviously used it to brush you off. Hot chicks are used to stupid guys being all over them all the time so you need to stand out by backing off and letting her decide if she wants you.
Words of advice: Don't seem too eager or she will think you are desperate. Also, you should never be the one putting in all the effort, or you will end up hurt and bitter. |
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When I lost my cell, btw, my numbers were in my cell and no where else.
Yeah, I'd be paralyzed if I lost my cell
I think I would DIE 
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yes....maybe he contacted her one too many times...but come on...he is still young. I'd be willing to bet at some point in our lives we were guilty of it too i've done it also. i'm just passing on wisdom that was never passed on to me. . . . |
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damn...lol..see the funny thing is that we were dancing spanish music and we had a lot of fun...she even started rubbing on me...it was too many signals to ignore...basically this caught me off guard...u know how spanish men dance merengue, salsa and bachata...funniest thing of it all..she got pissed cause some girl kept constantly trying to talk to me and get me to dance with her..so in front of her and this girl..i told her..listen i'm with someone..i cant do that..so the other girl left..and she was so happy i said that...thats when she started kissing me even more..again i could had her in my bed by the end of the night but decided not to...out of respect to her..but its cool...its a learning process...I'm decent..so i'll find another girl...=D damn though damn it...she was hot..lol..but ok..yesterday i was feeling really bad...today not so much.i think the move on stage started...i really appreciate your opinions....i think i blew it by caring..honestly...i wished she could just said "hey im a little busy, i'll call you later or tomorrow..." and it was done...but not playing these little games..she's 27 yrs old and i'm 24...i'm more mature than her it seems like...but oh well.... sometimes older isn't always wiser. she might have just gotten caught up in the moment. maybe she was just having a good time and gave you mixed signals. maybe that's just her personality; i used to know a guy who would flatter any female he saw no matter who she was, and everyone fell for it; he was just that good. but it wasn't personal for him, it was his way. and then maybe she just changed her mind, lots of people do that, for whatever reason. you'll go crazy trying to figure out why people do what they do. don't let it get you down. 
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yes....maybe he contacted her one too many times...but come on...he is still young. I'd be willing to bet at some point in our lives we were guilty of it too i've done it also. i'm just passing on wisdom that was never passed on to me. . . . 
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