Previous 1
Topic: what about trust issues!!!!!
no photo
Sat 07/04/09 01:17 PM
I came out of bad relationship about 9 years ago. I've been looking after my only child since. Now I really need a friend. How can I get give my trust to someone again????

Poetrywriter's photo
Sat 07/04/09 01:23 PM
You must use both your heart and your head! That and the time to use both! Good luck! flowerforyou

vivian2981's photo
Sat 07/04/09 01:30 PM

I came out of bad relationship about 9 years ago. I've been looking after my only child since. Now I really need a friend. How can I get give my trust to someone again????


Hey welcome to the forums!! flowerforyou
I too came out of a very bad relationship...Lesrning to trust again is one of the hardest things I have learned to do. But not everyone is that person who gave you so much greif, there are people out here that ready able and willing to help you along the path you wish to travel..Just open your heart and use your head, we're all here for you!

no photo
Sat 07/04/09 01:33 PM
If after nine years you are still having trust issues, my heart goes out to you. Dont make others pay for things they didnt do....

RKISIT's photo
Sat 07/04/09 01:35 PM
i prefer playboy issues:smile:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 07/04/09 01:43 PM
love I love your smile, your face and your eyeslove

devil Damn, I’m good at telling lies!pitchfork

silly's photo
Sat 07/04/09 01:46 PM

love I love your smile, your face and your eyeslove

devil Damn, I’m good at telling lies!pitchfork

:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 07/04/09 01:46 PM

I came out of bad relationship about 9 years ago. I've been looking after my only child since. Now I really need a friend. How can I get give my trust to someone again????


You can't make everyone pay for mistakes of the past, you also can't put everyone to the same caliber of person you have already dated. Talk to people, get to know them, learn to trust again...no one can give you a 'from point A to point B' answer, you have to learn to trust again we cannot learn it for you.

MeChrissy2's photo
Sat 07/04/09 06:46 PM


I came out of bad relationship about 9 years ago. I've been looking after my only child since. Now I really need a friend. How can I get give my trust to someone again????


You can't make everyone pay for mistakes of the past, you also can't put everyone to the same caliber of person you have already dated. Talk to people, get to know them, learn to trust again...no one can give you a 'from point A to point B' answer, you have to learn to trust again we cannot learn it for you.


I could just kiss you on the lips right now. Very nice post Fear.smooched bigsmile

plk1966's photo
Sat 07/04/09 06:49 PM



I came out of bad relationship about 9 years ago. I've been looking after my only child since. Now I really need a friend. How can I get give my trust to someone again????


You can't make everyone pay for mistakes of the past, you also can't put everyone to the same caliber of person you have already dated. Talk to people, get to know them, learn to trust again...no one can give you a 'from point A to point B' answer, you have to learn to trust again we cannot learn it for you.


I could just kiss you on the lips right now. Very nice post Fear.smooched bigsmile


I agree and couldn't have said it any better

no photo
Sat 07/04/09 06:52 PM

I came out of bad relationship about 9 years ago. I've been looking after my only child since. Now I really need a friend. How can I get give my trust to someone again????
Trust has to be EARNED from both sides and ANY good relationship evolves around and with-in trust..
Just go slow and keep some walls up until THEY prove through their actions that THEY are REAL and NOT just playing with your heart..
THIS includes even friendships found here,wink,
Through time and real desires YOU will learn their heart and theirs yours,,,,GOOD LUCK with ALL you seek to find here and in life..
flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 07/04/09 06:52 PM

I came out of bad relationship about 9 years ago. I've been looking after my only child since. Now I really need a friend. How can I get give my trust to someone again????


Simply put, you can't. Consider it all to be a form of negative reinforcement- you learn never to do what you just did again.

Tootsweet13's photo
Sat 07/04/09 06:54 PM
Not sure what you mean by "bad relationship", but if you are still having difficulties with trust issues 9 years later, it may be time for some therapy.

lnghntr's photo
Sat 07/04/09 06:57 PM
never trust again..that way you dont get hurt

plk1966's photo
Sat 07/04/09 07:01 PM

never trust again..that way you dont get hurt


but if you do that you may miss out of on something sepecial....you gotta take a chance sometimes, yes you might get burned but you also find exactly what you were looking for in the end

lnghntr's photo
Sat 07/04/09 07:02 PM


never trust again..that way you dont get hurt


but if you do that you may miss out of on something sepecial....you gotta take a chance sometimes, yes you might get burned but you also find exactly what you were looking for in the end
nah...its easier this way

plk1966's photo
Sat 07/04/09 07:08 PM



never trust again..that way you dont get hurt


but if you do that you may miss out of on something sepecial....you gotta take a chance sometimes, yes you might get burned but you also find exactly what you were looking for in the end
nah...its easier this way


nothing worthwhile is ever easyflowerforyou

lnghntr's photo
Sat 07/04/09 07:09 PM




never trust again..that way you dont get hurt


but if you do that you may miss out of on something sepecial....you gotta take a chance sometimes, yes you might get burned but you also find exactly what you were looking for in the end
nah...its easier this way


nothing worthwhile is ever easyflowerforyou
aha...theres the rub..is it worthwhile????

plk1966's photo
Sat 07/04/09 07:11 PM





never trust again..that way you dont get hurt


but if you do that you may miss out of on something sepecial....you gotta take a chance sometimes, yes you might get burned but you also find exactly what you were looking for in the end
nah...its easier this way


nothing worthwhile is ever easyflowerforyou
aha...theres the rub..is it worthwhile????


you will never know if you don't take the chance, now will ya?

lnghntr's photo
Sat 07/04/09 07:12 PM






never trust again..that way you dont get hurt


but if you do that you may miss out of on something sepecial....you gotta take a chance sometimes, yes you might get burned but you also find exactly what you were looking for in the end
nah...its easier this way


nothing worthwhile is ever easyflowerforyou
aha...theres the rub..is it worthwhile????


you will never know if you don't take the chance, now will ya?
I did once,more than once..didnt care for the way it turned out

Previous 1