I've been doing this for nearly 5 months and have yet to meet someone. Not just on this site, but a few other dating sites too.

Does my profile exude some kind of 'stay away' attitude I'm not aware of?

No it elicits a

It is a good and informative profile, but.... I'd add more and clearer photos. The main problem I see is that it doesn't stand out. There are a few of the typical cliches you see in almost every profile and there is little trace of your personality in the words. Be humorous! Be different! Let the essay reflect who you are! Do you have a dry and sardonic wit? Show it!

Also, I'd suggest interacting in the forums on a regular basis. Not only will you meet the best people on the site(s), you'll also be more visible and have the opportunity to network.

Good luck!

Omg...It does say.."Stay Away" in big flashing letter's...lolol....





lolol...just Kidding,you just keep talking on the forums,and have fun,let more people get to know you.

Best wishes,I think profile looks fine.

Needs salt or something, kinda bland.

Gut to Guy, your main pic looks like Josef Stalin.
Someone you know has a digital camera, ask them for a favor.

Good Luck.

I would take the shoulder to cry on off. Doesn't seem to go with the first part of what you want in a woman. Beside that email wave use those smilies.

Josef Stalin???


Well, I did do some updating. Although getting a better photo is going to take time.

But thanks all.

A young Josef Stalin.

5 months? Well at least it isn't 5 minutes! I have noticed some after a short time cry & moan that they aren't married yet! Truth is 5 months is a short time. You have to get and stay active in the forums to get yourself noticed. But there is no set limit to the time. Could happen in 5 months, could happen in 5 years. Each person is different. Just hang in there, have fun and when you least expect it........bam! You find her! Good luck!

Take you time and take easy,good luck

About how long for a better photo cuz I have to pee and don't know if I should wait around or not. I'd hate to have an accident if yanno what I mean...

Hey if you see unread deleted don't be disappointed, some users (.01%) get 100 new emails a day if they have a great picture up. People like that don't have time to read your message even if they wanted to.

I havent met anyone either, and I lived right smack dab in the middle of Fort Lauderdale Texas, and now I live near Dallas Tx.

Well I met one guy and talked on the phone, he was awesome, but then I had to move.

I get tons of email, but noone Id be interested in.


Just keep your profile, and keep emailing. Dont get discouraged if you dont get wonderful response all the time. Its totally a nmbers thing.

Post in the forums too, join in, and talk to the regulars, I have made some really cool friends which I speak to on a regular.

Good luck my friend.

Move to Africa.there seems to be an ungodly amount of "American" Women that are stuck over there due to deaths in the family or they're husbands have been kidnapped and it doesn't take long for them to love you either

THIS would be my advice also..

And REALLY,,,on here. THE MORE YOU ARE SEEN, the MORE you can be NOTICED by another...

Many ladies might miss this because their not on now?

So don't think that few replies mean your not seen as someone that they might like..Just KNOW they probably NEVER seen you on here..


POST, REPLY,,,,and POST more,,be you be funny be REAL and YOU be be seen.....

Your marital status says "married".

*****Smacks Mirror*****


No it doesn't.... But putting a limit of how far away from you, really cuts down on the number of women who can contact you. Distance may be a problem with moving and dating, but you might meet a nice woman to chat with who happens to live a bit further away.

A few more pics wouldn't hurt....remember that I told you how to do it before??

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/206043 Smiling at your phone always me feel funny, but that is how I take pics of myself too.

You know you liked it!!!! Don't even try to deny it!!!!

I don't see anything wrong with your profile, other than the default pic looks as if you took a pic of a pic..:) You should scan it with a scanner, or at least take it out of the pic frame.
But I am guessing looking at your mail restrictions, that there are not that many ppl on mingle between the ages of 20-45 that are single and that live 100 miles from Milwaulkee thats all.