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Topic: What is romance? (for you guys)
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Thu 07/02/09 08:45 PM
I'm recently divorced, and having been on the on line dating circuit for only a few months, have seen a glaring misconception, by men, of what "romance" means to a woman. Big clue, fellas...it's NOT sex!
Ever wonder what happened to that great love afair? You stopped being romantic. Why do we need it? I don't have an answer for that, but we DO need it! Have you ever seen a couple in their later years, married for 30, 40, 50 years, and she still looks at him with "googly eyes", they still hold hands? He's not even good looking, what does she see in HIM? It's because he still romances her. He puts on some sensual music while she's cooking dinner, waits for her to have a 'break', takes her in his arms and dances her around the kitchen, maybe plants a soft but lingering kiss(no tongue), and then walks away to let her finish her business. And she just MIGHT turn off the stove and say, "We can eat later.", if you get my drift. The secret? He left her wanting more. It's these little occasional surprises that keeps our motor running. A sweet love note on the pillow, tickets to an affair in her bag, an invitation to meet for lunch or dinner at a favorite or new spot, imagination is the key. It's give and take...you want sex, we want romance. Give us what we need, and we give you what you need. You get what you give....The Romance Guru


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Thu 07/02/09 08:46 PM
welcome to mingle

bluelady2020's photo
Thu 07/02/09 09:08 PM
Thanx...Hope I can do a favor for the women of the world.

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Thu 07/02/09 09:09 PM
hi and welcome

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Thu 07/02/09 09:10 PM
flowerforyou this post so true flowerforyou and welcome

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Thu 07/02/09 09:14 PM
Think they'll actually read it? LOL I'll teach it one man at a time if I have to!frustrated

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Thu 07/02/09 09:18 PM
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PATSFAN's photo
Thu 07/02/09 09:32 PM
Sounds like you read too many novelslaugh laugh

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Thu 07/02/09 09:35 PM

Sounds like you read too many novelslaugh laugh




Ya think?

Lilypetal's photo
Thu 07/02/09 09:37 PM
And they wonder why they are dateless....

Jtevans's photo
Thu 07/02/09 09:37 PM
beer is quicker and easier :thumbsup:

Homesteader2's photo
Thu 07/02/09 09:38 PM
Yes Blue Lady, Old fashion Romance is the only way to treat your better half. But, it's finding someone who welcomes it. And dosn't stero type be for they get to know you.

bluelady2020's photo
Thu 07/02/09 09:38 PM

And they wonder why they are dateless....


LOL...my point exzctly!

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Thu 07/02/09 09:38 PM

And they wonder why they are dateless....



Not I...

bluelady2020's photo
Thu 07/02/09 09:41 PM


And they wonder why they are dateless....



Not I...

But do you maintain a relationship?

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Thu 07/02/09 09:42 PM



And they wonder why they are dateless....



Not I...

But do you maintain a relationship?



I'm here for the Italian pastry... And a few friends.

bluelady2020's photo
Thu 07/02/09 09:55 PM

beer is quicker and easier :thumbsup:


Yeah, and then she pukes on you.:angry:

Jtevans's photo
Thu 07/02/09 09:59 PM


beer is quicker and easier :thumbsup:


Yeah, and then she pukes on you.:angry:



not if you keep her face down...smokin

bluelady2020's photo
Thu 07/02/09 10:14 PM
When your 45 living alone with your dog and wondering why, remember what I wrote.

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Thu 07/02/09 10:34 PM
drinks :laughing: :laughing:

I'm recently divorced, and having been on the on line dating circuit for only a few months, have seen a glaring misconception, by men, of what "romance" means to a woman. Big clue, fellas...it's NOT sex!
Ever wonder what happened to that great love afair? You stopped being romantic. Why do we need it? I don't have an answer for that, but we DO need it! Have you ever seen a couple in their later years, married for 30, 40, 50 years, and she still looks at him with "googly eyes", they still hold hands? He's not even good looking, what does she see in HIM? It's because he still romances her. He puts on some sensual music while she's cooking dinner, waits for her to have a 'break', takes her in his arms and dances her around the kitchen, maybe plants a soft but lingering kiss(no tongue), and then walks away to let her finish her business. And she just MIGHT turn off the stove and say, "We can eat later.", if you get my drift. The secret? He left her wanting more. It's these little occasional surprises that keeps our motor running. A sweet love note on the pillow, tickets to an affair in her bag, an invitation to meet for lunch or dinner at a favorite or new spot, imagination is the key. It's give and take...you want sex, we want romance. Give us what we need, and we give you what you need. You get what you give....The Romance Guru





Welcome and have fun!
I just got rid of a man for not having a single romatic bone in his body!No more of that for me.That was the first and last man like that.Romance or be gone!oops Did I say that?? Yep I did

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