see kimberly we think alike

I was going to suggest this also.
Yes she's going to hurt by this, but she will get over it. I'd want to know if it was me.

I guess some have never lost a baby under a stressful point in their life?

Some might beable to handle the news?

Just thinking about her being pregnant!

He has gotten someone else pregnant quite awhile ago. Or believe he has that baby looks to much like him not to be his. And Im guessing that since she has forgiving him so many times before that she will this time as well and I just dont want it to be awkward when I go there to visit and see both of them. But yes I did send her the link. And honestly Im almost guessing that chances are she knows (she also tracks his comp stuff because of past stuff) and didnt tell me because she doesnt know Im on the site either, nor does she really have to tell me lol. So we'll see. It was just a shock to my system to see it myself. I know shes seen things like it from other sites and people so Im guessing as I said its not gonna change alot but I do see her yelling at him for a few days lol, which he deserves.

JMO of course, but if I knew my friend's hubby/boyfriend was doing this...I would let her know. I wouldn't want to carry it around with me and if it ends the friendship...I'd be sad but my conscious would be clear

just a thought

I would hope if my friend saw my man doing something so evil to cheat on me while I was pregnant or not that she would tell me.

Yea it would be nice if it was a private place where I would at least have a chance of recovering with a shread of dignity.

It would also be nice to have some proof. It is always her choice if she uses it. As a mother of three she should be able to hang this jerk out to dry for support and child support.

It is possible she knows but on the outside chance she doesn't the posters that are suggestiong that he could expose her and her unborn child to serious harm are right.

You say he tells he is married so it is not like the women who see him don't ask for the misery they are getting. Sad part of it this turkey plays it any number of ways.

you sent the link the rest is up to her

god will take care of the baby. whats important no geting someoneelse pregnant or giveing baby something from a std and its moraley right

My ex had cheated on me before. My best girl friend (have been since we were kids) then found out he had asked out a 15 y/o neighbor girl of theirs on a date. She told me about it. It was hard for her to tell me, but I think she did the right thing. I managed to short circuit anything happening between them and she is still my best friend. I wasn't mad at her, was grateful actually.

I guess it depends on the depth of your friendship as to whether she turns on you or not and even if she does, many times she may come back to you for the friendship later on, when she realizes she was wrong to turn on you.

It is ultimately your choice, but I would make a copy of his profile page on here for proof anyways before he deletes it.

well put

I like inanimate objects, they always say nice things to me.

Good of you to think about her and the pregnancy, but I would think most women could handle the stress of something like this. Some women are more fragile, of course. I would hope, being it is her 3rd child, that she is not that fragile and the stress will not affect her pregnancy.

Mirror, Mirror on the wall
who's the freakiest of them all?

Thank you all for the help. I was just very disstressed when I had first seen it. Guess its good for her to know and like I said maybe she already does and thats why he hasnt been on for over a month lol.

I guess you could either tell her

or help him to betray her by not telling her

Force him to man up!

possibly show several friends the info and all go comfort her and tell her that way, and comfort her at the same time while you're all there with her.... she might need a place to be other than home for a couple of days as well.

Go to her house......while she is in the bathroom, go to the website and pull up his profile and let her find out on her own.

Shine it on. It's the dance they do. She's aware that she's married to a jerk and I'll bet my bottom dollar that anyone who comes between them when they're doing their dance gets stomped on and left to bleed.