Princess got some of my thoughts in private.....about why I wouldn't do it myself. That said, I soooooo admire that fact that you don't mind just stating it up front. Great way to be!

I said I am sorry. Just being protective. Never tell guys you want a date. I have been in the military and factories and farms...lots of pigs out there. I am sorry if I came across as derogatory to you, and I apologize again. Please do not make me say "I'm sorry" a third time.

don't say you're sorry more than once.. If people don't get it from there they never will and it's a waste.. besides we're messing with you...

This is VERY true!

I never meant I was sorry...who's messing with who? I am new here, but I have been around the block.

How will people know, if you don't tell them. That's how I see it. I was honestly asking for a date with no hopes on any of it. I am a VERY confident woman. I have dealt with pigs and I know how to weed em out! LOL I didn't used to be so outgoing, but over the years I have come out of my shell.

You were trying to give advice....that was cool. So basically you are saying that there are men who would take advantage of a women that says she would like to be dating. It might smell of desperation. I can see some merit in that theory. However, since we are here at a "dating" site (I know I'll get arguments on that statement), it would seem that she is just stating the obvious. It's a shame that's how our society is now. I'd love to come across some old fashion courting from someone who is actually interested in dating and not playing games while looking for the next better thing.

Oops...major ramble.....sorry!

Princess sneezes <bullsh*t>

Welcome to the Mingle2! Having fun is what it's all about!

Bless You My Lady. Here's a tissue.

You said it perfectly!

I guess I was advice giving Supermom. I have always been a protector, and have a 23 year old daughter. Sometimes the former law enforment guy comes out. I have seen the bad side of dating. Peace and good luck. Be safe and use the buddy system. jmo


Of course I do get harrassed as well.

That was very sweet of you...

Me Sweet? No way.

No problem. It is nice to know there are some "big brother" types on here. Thanks for the advice. I am no spring chicken myself...LOL. Good luck to you as well. This site is a lot of fun and there are great people on here.

Oh yeah ... you're frakkin' ancient!

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