I don't believe in it. My thing is how can you love someone you don't even know.

I didn't believe in it either. I guess it's just one of those things that you have to experience. Like UFO's and Ghosts

In this day and time you never know what might happen. There are a lot of things I say I will not do or don't believe in, but you never know. I do hope things contiune to work between you two. Everyone deserve happiness.

Lust at first sight.
Love at first sight.

love at first sight exists in my opinion-
have had it happen more than once!

People confuse lust and love. Sorry, I just don't believe in it.

Ok..... having knowledge doesnt mean you have to live by it. I know life is easier to be a ****in A-hole but I dont do it. You can have knowledge, but you dont have to change because of it. Knowledge is logic.... and love is absolutely not logical. Love requires faith, and faith is believing without KNOWING... without proof, and certainly without logic (if you've ever been in love, you know crazy **** happens that is completely mind-boggling). If you have no faith in the impossible, why do you even look for love? Not long ago you could get sick or die by eating chicken, did you stop? Do you still not eat chicken? Everybody may "learn" this truth and prepare and protect themselves, but by doing that you are not accepting love. You are fighting it. I believed a long time ago in Chi and the power that rests within us.... I never had anything to prove it. Just the other day, I saw a man light paper on fire with his hand hovering above it, manipulating his energy outwards. Some might not even believe that, but are you going to disbelieve something just because it is not likely? Have you never seen something so incredible it seemed it couldnt be real? Everything is mental, and anything can be real. All on you.

Ahhh youth. It is a wonderful thing.

It really does **** to be older and have experienced enough to make a person cynical.

Pepe Le Pew believed in love at first sight

Over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over again!

There is a great saying I got from a friend's mother.
"We do not stop playing because we get old, we get old because we stop playing."
I know people who have had absolutely rough, terrible lives. But they kept positive, and they are doing amazing, and one has been with his girlfriend for over 3 years now, and she was his love at first sight. If you let yourself think negatively because of negative experiences, then you are not letting it be possible. I wouldnt be able to explain what I've gone through, but the things I've seen and been in are ages older than everybody I grew up with. It is your mind that makes it so, but it does not make it a fact. Universal truth is not measured in mass appeal. And thats why so few experience it, because so few are willing to let go of knowledge, memory, experience, belief.... for something so much better. Only they will see such realities.

That was lust. Pepe was never the sharpest tool in the shed, was he?

I do not think negatively. I think realistically. Walk three decades in my shoes and then come back and talk.

I love life, music, women, and laughter. However, I've done and seen a lot that leads me to my conclusions. Words from a youth, no matter how reasoned, do not resonate with me. You simply have not lived long enough.

Understood, but i know many who have and longer than you I'm sure. I have seen people do the unbelievable, and reality is only what you yourself make it. I dont need experience to have faith in something that may or may not exist, because it does within me, even if not in anybody else. And that, makes it real. I feel sorry you do not have this.

Don't feel sorry for me. I'm fine. I haven't given up on love, but the love at first sight stuff is just silly.

I don't believe in Santa or the tooth fairy either. Does that make you feel sad for me?

Youth does not always mean ignorance my friend. I am 28, which I know is still young and I have much to learn. At the same time though I have been on my own since I was 16. Been all over these states. Been through many rough times and had many learning experiences. While yes, I do think realistically, I also keep an open mind to everything around me. For it is when we close our minds that we may miss the greatest things in our lives.

Where did you read ignorance? I said EXPERIENCE. Sorry, but no matter how smart, wise, realistic, worldly, etc etc etc etc, youth does not have experience. Your many rough times are relative to the amount of time you've been on the planet. That's how it works. End of story.

Good man, respect. I guess my point and final thought is that life is full of inconceivable events, ideas and stories. I do believe it is a very, very rare thing, but my statement is to say there is always possibility, even if its 1 in ten trillion. I do not intend to say you dont have belief in love or life or even the unlikely. I simply say you never know...

This world is crazy, we are crazy, I love every moment even when its bad because it is all necessary. Love is illogical as is most human emotion, and that is what makes us so unique. That is how the unrealistic becomes more than an idea. I believe everything has a balance and its equal opposites, and to put any sort of logic to love, real love, in any way, to me, is not worth it.

i believe in it, u can feel the sparks