A while back about 3 or 4 months ago I started talking to this guy I met
online. One night I went out with my best friend and her boyfriend- I
was talking to him on my cell phone and he ended up coming to 6th street
and meeting us. We had a wonderful time together. It ended that we would
meet for a date on Saturday. Well, the next day I saw an "ad" on the
site we met and it described him to a T only he just had his initials.
So I asked my best friend to answer the ad to find out if it was him
and...it was. I called him and wrote him, however he did not answer
back. A week later my best friend stated gues who she happen to run
across and talk to over lunch...well it was him. I told her that hurt me
that she would even have a long lunch with him and she said it was
business because her dad and he works in the same industry and reasurred
me it was nothing. A month after that she told me she was leaving her
boyfriend because she found Mr. Right. I asked if it was him. She said
no and stated a name. Today, months later, I read something she wrote on
myspace. One of the questions was who car were you in last night...I
guess she slipped because there was his name. Ouch..I wrote her and told
her that I deleted her out of my life. Am I wrong to do that? I do not
feel anything for this guy, but she was my best friend and feel betrayed
bt her. Wow..you think you know and love someone and it just hits you
from behind. Kind of takes your breathe away and makes you wonder.

freinds don't lie to each other. if they do? then they were not your
freind to begin with.

I agree with foolmeonce...not a friend...

well why have them around if ya can not trust them

the guy is not the issue

nearlly as much as lying about it

if their word is no good what is

just my view

but hey what do i know

joyce..u are better than them.....i would of disowned her too

I agree with the others a friend who lies to you isn't a friend

thank you-
i will be careful who I call my BEST friend.

i am soo sorry to hear that happend to u! i have been through something
very simular with who i thought was my best friend... and i know it
hurts... and just know .. that u did the right thing...becouse if she
would lie to u over a guy...then u could never really trust her!! with
anything!!

right- it just hurts!!
but I usually get stronger over stuff like that

ya u will get stronger...good luck!!!

Everybody is human and everyone makes mistakes, sometimes huge mistakes.
My advice: You have a right to be angry with your friend, I would
confront her (person to person) and ask for an apology. If she
apologizes, then forgive her and move on with your life. If she
doesn't, then you have to make a decision: Remain her friend or break
off the friendship. If you remain her friend, then it will be like
pouring hot coals onto her head and might make her regeret how she
treated you. I have to assume that if she is your best friend, that you
guys had something in common...besides your taste in men, I mean. I
encourage you to think about your friendship and what it has meant to
you and ask yourself if you are willing to give that up. If you love
her, you should know that there will come a time when she needs you.
Guys with those sorts of relationship problems are often repeat
offenders and he will probably break her heart before too long. JMHO.

Friends disagree sometimes.
Might want to just leave it alone for awhile.
They break up, you might be friends again.
Time heals a lot of things.
Never say never.
She just might come knocking someday.

and i might be open to be her friend, best friend...never

i would never trust her again.... a long time ago i had a best friend
that i grew up with and we were friends for over 20 something yrs and i
was livin with my kids dad and we were havin some rough times so
naturally i would talk to her about it and he and her "supposedly" hated
each other, she would tell me what a loser he was and he was always
callin her names..well i got off work early one day and noticed he was
home from work so i thought i would suprise him and well when i walked
into the bedroom he and her were goin at it and i just lost it.. i beat
the hell out of her and tried to beat the hell out of him but he ran and
got in the car and left i took my kids who were in the livin room playin
and left everything and never went back just took our clothes but first
i stabbed the hell out of the waterbed and destroyed his clothes,
childish probably but i did feel a little better but i never went back i
moved out of town and that was the start of a new life for me.

Not because of the guy, but because she LIED to you...with friends like
that, who needs enemas?

hate stuff like that...she's no friend.....

that's so crappy... id delete her to.. and put nails under her tires,
and be really mad! lol

<<<note to self, do not piss off Sorority.

lol scotty....


yikes, that sucks! hugs friend

((((((((((((((((Joyce)))))))))))))))))
No you have every right to be upset, if she was a real friend and they
hit it off, she should have told you the truth, whether it would hurt or
not.Sure you might have been upset at first, but you would have gotten
over it.