hello jill, whats up?

Ohh, In case anyone's wondering, I do hold everything that I said In this thread to be true and try to live by it in any relationship I am in.

Awesome thread guyundisputed. My favorite part is ''Don't tell us we're wrong..... we'll stop trying to convince you''. That's so true.

I have one: Stop judging the existance of soulmates on steriotypical men endorsed by hollywood. But feel free to compare me to the cretins you've dated, I'll be happy to make them look like crap :D

One more: Doing everything for you makes me happy, even if you don't reach the bar I've raised. But if you want a slave, buzz off queen bee :P

You've got me inspired dude, lol: We want to know your friends and make them laugh, and even make fun of them too in hilariously mean ways..... to make them laugh, lol. But if you believe so strongly that your partner can't be your best friend, we won't try at all, and it'll get you depressed eventually.

Don't be so girly to us. There's a reason nature made us men; we're wierd. We like dirt, bugs, muscle cars, grease, Tim Taylor grunting on Tool Time, haha, adrenaline. We like flowers too, but come onnnnn. Baby talk is for babies and rats aren't that scary :P

Don't tell us that we can't save the world....... we can ;) Ever hear of Supergirl or Wonderwoman? You can too.

That is all for now, lol.

I Hope that more people become inspired to write thier thoughts in this thread. I'd definitly like to hear them. We all have different point of views on how different aspects oa a realtionship should he handled. And I'm not just looking for guys' point of views. Ladies let us hear your thoughts.

Oh, Here's another one. Girls: ask before you take the last beer. We'll most likely say yes, but ask anyway.....it's a guy thing.
Guys: Buy her something for no reason, even if it's something small It'll make her happy.

Duh, I learned never to take the last beer before asking and to never (even if its a playful gesture) to whack a guy across the face.

I didn't want to quote the original post (its so long) but here's my thoughts.


Where the hell do you find girls like that? Ew ...

Very few and far between, but they are out there.

I suppose it depends on the area you reside in. I've only met one or two girls like that. I mostly associate myself with people who aren't materialistic, and who are at least 85% drama free. Probably explains why I have only a handfuls of friends. Ah well.

although I can say about the guys paying....the guys that have told me that, later turned that against me. plus I don't think a guy should go broke to date someone. but I'm a stubborn redneck....what do you expect

plus I grew up with a single mom after my dad died when i was 7....so I saw her have to be completely independant.

If I'm with someone I care about I like to do things for them. It makes me happy to put a smile on thier face.

I seem to think 70s and 80s love songs ruined the existance of "man"kind. never could live up to those songs.

That's nice and all.. but many guys these days complain about having to pay. I never expect them to, anyway.

Guys: Listen to what she has to say and respond accordingly.
Girls: Don't expect us to remember every little detail about everything, we will remember the important stuff.

Guys: No really does mean no.
Girls: Don't beat around the bush or paraphrase, say what you mean. We are not mind readers.

Good, I'm not the only one...

might be just my opinion... but ummm, most guys don't remember the important stuff without us.

and

mind reading is a bit much for making this point. Anyone can guess what someone you know might want, like, think, etc...I get into too much trouble when I say what I mean.

Yes, very good point. I do try and remember the important things, Some guys might not. And while yes, while it is possible to guess what someone wants that you know well and sometimes it's even fun, you shouldn't make it a habit to leave them guessing. Especially if you haven't known them a long time, it can lead to many arguements over minor misunderstandings.

Guys: don't make assumptions based on anything that you don't know to be fact.
Girls: Same thing

If you hear something or think you know something, but you are not 100% sure, without a shadow of a doubt, then please talk to them about it before you decide to throw around blame and hurtful words.

Guys: If she's sad, comfort her. If she's happy, be happy with her. If she's angry with you, appologize, tell her you love her (and mean it), and give her some space.

Girls: Let us comfort you, we want to make you happy. If we say we're sorry, we mean it, otherwise we wouldn't say it.

you seem like a nice guy