The couple that fights the most is the one most in love... it shows they care enough to notice the other one screwed up and care enough to mention it to the person so they can fix it. When you stop fighting is that mean you stopped caring?

That may be true, my parents fight everyday & they have been married just about 50 years now!

haha... soooo not true, but making up can be so much fun

if the fighting out weighs the good times...then maybe something needs to be looked at and see why they are fighting so much.

no relationship is happily ever after and fights do happen

fighting is different than mentioning something or communicating

Thats how some couples commmunicate

sad isn't it?

That's a bit of twisted logic, isn't it?

We fight daily, all day, hours on end...until it turns violent. Sound familiar? Fighting only propagates more fighting, a debate once in awhile on the direction of the relationship is one thing but a full blown fight is an entirely different thing. That means there is no ground being covered in a debate, as soon as you start fighting you already lost the debate and are only fueling the rage further by continuing to argue about it.

If you and your partner cannot even agree on something much less find common ground...perhaps you should find another one?