Ok so I've NEVER heard of something like this. I've heard of similar situations but never one that has these details.

This person I know (for once it isn't me XD) is in a situation with a girl that he really cares for they have great chemistry and they make the world jealous when they're together. Really it is the cutest thing I've ever seen (this coming from a guy)and here comes the odd part. Despite the fact that these two seem perfect for one another and such she already has a boy friend! The relationship between her and her boy friend is long distance and the time they spend together is grand but she constantly questions if she is with the right guy. I'm friends with both of them so I want them to be together but I am really unsure of how they should handle it. I feel like I'm in middle school again with the way they act it is rather stupid. So I came here for advice since last time I got some really good stuff for myself.

A little more info....
1. She won't leave the guy she is with for him as she claims it is "tacky"
2. He won't listen to adult reasoning and move on.
3. Her boy friend is oddly supportive of his crush (I don't get it either)
4. She constantly tells my friend that she likes him and when both him and her boy friend were together with her she chose to be all over my friend more so than her boy friend.

I'm just so stumped because this seems to stupid to me. Please shine some light on what I should say to them.

Just leave it! Let themchave the wacky relationship. It's theirs. If you disturb it they will hate you. Just be there for him when he falls. Cause she sounds like a player no matter how cute it looks

ok man i know how you feel this situation has happened to me too....
i know why her bf is supportive of the crush its because he is hopeing for a way out of the distance thing without being the bad guy and i think she probably should leave her current guy for your friend it sounds like they would both be happy but you need to make her see it that way

I was afraid of that -.- I feel so bad for him there has to be something that I can say or do I mean I've had similar things happen and it sucks.

Interesting

Dude just sit back and enjoy the movie.lol. Something rad will bound to happen. You're probably that friend that's like to give some kind of good advise to another friend but this time I say sit it out. Let them figure it out themselves.

Chris you just made a very interesting point....that would make them both happy.

just trying to help my man

ive had more crazy crap happen to me that i have the luxury of hindsight in a lot of areas.

I'm socially retarded so I always mess up I needed an adults point of view with out going to my older brother whom would just laugh and say "fight it out dumb a$$"

well i wouldnt call myself an adult but im good with handleing relationship questions. my friends call me their therapist lol

I'm always stuck dealing with it too they call me their perma third wheel.

so you should be getting good at it lol

if you need help with advice like this email me im always willing to help

Isn't life interesting enough without thinking about someone else's problem? Leave it be, they keep sticking it to you tell em to **** off.

She is loving all of the attention that she is getting from both of them. It is pretty twisted. The guy's are dumb and, both are going to loose.

@ Chris: Thank you! I might take advantage of that.

@ Feared: If I do that then I'd let my friends down and I wouldn't want them to leave me hanging.

Okay, how often do you leave this kind of stuff on their mind...and futhermore, how often do they help you?

It's pretty equal...We all do what we can some people can let their friends figure it out but I'll always take care of them because I love them both very much.

i hope you do

and i know how you feel i cant leave my friends hanging either

i hope you do

and i know how you feel i cant leave my friends hanging either


I am a firm believer in karma XD

i hope you do

and i know how you feel i cant leave my friends hanging either


I am a firm believer in karma XD


ah karmic retribution it would be nice to see some good come to me for all the help i give lol