I once said I will never do this, but I am. Heaven please forgive me in advance

I really like this guy. We hang out often, but he seems to me to be very vague about certain things.

WAIT....before judgement just know I am sooooo good at taking things beyond what they mean.

He was hurt by someone he really cared about. I have been single for 8 years. Him, 9 months. He always wants me there but won't answer direct questions or reply to direct comments.

I need help before I come to my own conclusions, which is what I always do.

By the way, I went to meet the "kids" this past weekend if that makes a difference.

Ok....here it goes..Please be gentle

Did you touch him sexually

How did I know you would be the first to respond?

Yes, we had sex

Kim, that isn't the answer

He's hiding something, or you're badgering him.

but Tami...I have given you my thoughts already.

You had sex already?

Sounds like a Klingon

Met the kids already

I'd say. (Very nicely. Very softly)

RUN BABYRUN!!!

id say go for it dear im sure if you two have slept together there has to be some feelings there..... or at least i think thats how it works for everyone....maybe its just me

But you don't know when or how I met him

Hummmmmmm sorry anyone that will not answer me directly and always seems to go off the subject then something is just not there.

Hummmm could be that thing called trust without that in a relationship it will not go anywhere ........JMO

But didn't he answer you directly Kristi?

So tell me

Shouldnt you be having this talk with him? Before you guess at his motives, at least give him the chance to answer it himself. Or have you already done that?

TM

You cheap hussy








(Joking)

I tried. He admits he avoids certain things because it is easier. I SOOOOO totally understand that, since I am the Queen at destroying them.

Okay that makes it a whole new ballgame for maybe your reading more into it then what it there. Since you put it that way could you be the one with the insecurities?

But meeting the kids and all. Does that not change anything?

Well your kinda explaining maybe neither of you should be in a relationship now

I will not disagree with this at all. I do have issues, my profile tells you all of that. Good point. I like your way of thinking