Topic: help!!
tink8809's photo
Mon 06/15/09 04:14 PM
i just moved bak in town and the friends i had all moved away

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Mon 06/15/09 04:15 PM

i just moved bak in town and the friends i had all moved away


Well... just go park your ass on a street corner for awhile. Not only will ya meet most of the local men. But im guessing the local police and all the jealous women too!!! bigsmile

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 06/15/09 04:16 PM
you just need to find out how to be happy with yourself first. no one can make you happy. and sometimes people can pick up on how you are feeling. happy and sad radiate flowerforyou

tink8809's photo
Mon 06/15/09 04:16 PM
i cant dont have the time or the money

franshade's photo
Mon 06/15/09 04:17 PM
get involved in local activities - smile at the people you pass by while walking, say hello - you'll find making friends is not that hard, but keeping them is.


now Rose, why ya following me tongue2

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 06/15/09 04:18 PM

get involved in local activities - smile at the people you pass by while walking, say hello - you'll find making friends is not that hard, but keeping them is.


now Rose, why ya following me tongue2


pitchfork

tink8809's photo
Mon 06/15/09 04:18 PM
i guess i could always go get some extra hours on saturday for school

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Mon 06/15/09 04:20 PM
stop moanin i aint gotta man an do ya see me complainin? yup all the fokkin time. laugh

tink8809's photo
Mon 06/15/09 04:21 PM
you are so mean!!! im very sensitive

t0nic4778's photo
Mon 06/15/09 04:22 PM
Truthfully and honestly, us guys are generally conditioned to be exactly what you are describing... Some are raised that way... others (like myself) have been forced into it, to protect ourselves from the horde of users, losers, and abusers we have encountered. I dont claim to be a nice guy anymore... it gets me laughed at... makes me look weak and that apparently is a turn off to most women. (though most of the arrogant attitude is faked, at least in my case). The dating scene is a rough crowd, much more so than I recall before I got married
(and now divorced). Seems everyone wants to just screw around, have their fun at any and all costs. Men like me get hurt, become callous... and generally speaking we get to the point where we just dont care anymore. Under the surface and given the proper attention, (and if you hang around long enough) you'll can find that "nice" guy under all that attitude and bluntness. I assure you we do still exist... the ones who dont take advantage and are still looking for that dream. You just gotta get passed the scar tissue of our past.

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Mon 06/15/09 04:24 PM

you are so mean!!! im very sensitive


Nahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he's not mean, just honest... put on your big girl undies and cope sunshine... its gonna get worse before it gets better

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Mon 06/15/09 04:24 PM
oh pish, i'm not mean at all, anyone would tell ya that and i doubt ur as sensitive as u make out either tongue2

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Mon 06/15/09 04:25 PM

oh pish, i'm not mean at all, anyone would tell ya that and i doubt ur as sensitive as u make out either tongue2


I kinda thought the street corner concept had potential...didnt you fife???

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Mon 06/15/09 04:26 PM


oh pish, i'm not mean at all, anyone would tell ya that and i doubt ur as sensitive as u make out either tongue2


I kinda thought the street corner concept had potential...didnt you fife???


exactly and did u get called mean? nope! pitchfork

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Mon 06/15/09 04:31 PM
Edited by MAKE_ME_GIGGLE on Mon 06/15/09 04:31 PM



oh pish, i'm not mean at all, anyone would tell ya that and i doubt ur as sensitive as u make out either tongue2


I kinda thought the street corner concept had potential...didnt you fife???


exactly and did u get called mean? nope! pitchfork


not yet!!! but im working on it

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Mon 06/15/09 04:32 PM




oh pish, i'm not mean at all, anyone would tell ya that and i doubt ur as sensitive as u make out either tongue2


I kinda thought the street corner concept had potential...didnt you fife???


exactly and did u get called mean? nope! pitchfork


not yet!!! but im working on it


well if ya need any help i'm only a thread away devil

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Mon 06/15/09 04:34 PM





oh pish, i'm not mean at all, anyone would tell ya that and i doubt ur as sensitive as u make out either tongue2


I kinda thought the street corner concept had potential...didnt you fife???


exactly and did u get called mean? nope! pitchfork


not yet!!! but im working on it


well if ya need any help i'm only a thread away devil


YOU'RE SO KIND!!! for a meany that is... bigsmile

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Mon 06/15/09 04:35 PM
i does my best flowers

tink8809's photo
Mon 06/15/09 04:35 PM
i might look and act stronger than i actually am i really never had a childhood i had to grow up fast and take care of my sisters and my mom

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Mon 06/15/09 04:36 PM

Truthfully and honestly, us guys are generally conditioned to be exactly what you are describing... Some are raised that way... others (like myself) have been forced into it, to protect ourselves from the horde of users, losers, and abusers we have encountered. I dont claim to be a nice guy anymore... it gets me laughed at... makes me look weak and that apparently is a turn off to most women. (though most of the arrogant attitude is faked, at least in my case). The dating scene is a rough crowd, much more so than I recall before I got married
(and now divorced). Seems everyone wants to just screw around, have their fun at any and all costs. Men like me get hurt, become callous... and generally speaking we get to the point where we just dont care anymore. Under the surface and given the proper attention, (and if you hang around long enough) you'll can find that "nice" guy under all that attitude and bluntness. I assure you we do still exist... the ones who dont take advantage and are still looking for that dream. You just gotta get passed the scar tissue of our past.

An excellent first post w/ many valid points.I'd like to to see U post more often.G'luck! in your search.Godspeed!Cy :smile: drinker