my boyfriend told me that he thinks i love him more than he loves me.

i was offended and hurt when he said this and i even told him that this puts things in a whole new light and that i may have to consider breaking up with him because of it.

what do you think? do you think i'm overreacting?

why on earth would he even say that! Is he planning on breaking up with you?

i think you both need to grow up. don't worry about " how " much you love someone, just love someone. there are no love measurements.

he said that in every relationship there's always gonna be one who loves the other more. he thinks that one is me .

aha but u had doubts a while ago, is there something deeper going on inside u?

well gayfify, since i made that post a while back about having my doubts, i really started falling for the guy a lot more...

which is why what he said actually stung a bit.

hmm i guess that makes sense...

that would be a hurtful thing for somebody you love to say.
I would be very upset if my boyfriend told me that.

and i would think he had some clarifying to do after such a statement

You can can one of two thing's. Dump him before he dump's you or, take it as merely a comment, an observation. None the less, be prepared. And, good luck to you.

he's a man hunni, he's testing u, it's what they do!

*sigh*

alrighty then.

i think i'll go and think about this on my own for a while. thanks guys for being so helpful as always.

don't u be worrying about it, it's nothing trust me

I truly believe in every relationship, someone does love deeper then the other person. I myself would rather be the one who has the other person loving me more. Honestly, I have never been in the situation to where I loved them more~~I think I always have a guard up.
When he said this, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. BUT he might mean that you are really starting to fall "head over heels" in love with him and he notices.
I don't really know your situation, do you live together or just date?

There has to be a reason why he said that

Maybe he's trying to tell you something

It could be that he notices the love or

He might be just freaking out by it

Good luck , hope things get better

Love is, or is not.