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My love for my sons is.. I learned unconditional love and forgiveness from them, not my own mother. My mom hates me 
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What about unconditional love between a mother and an adopted child? Do you think it is possible or never really exists? I have had day care kids, foster kids, children by birth and adopted children and I can tell you that bonding feeling is basiclly the same. With and adopted child you see them it just hits you like when you are pregnant and you have that "quickening" feeling. Any child you have you have to bond with. If mother and child are both strong and healthy it is a lot easier to bond than if one or both are not. Once a child goes through severe enough abandonment they turn within and pretty much are never able to bond. Those kids can get all the love in the world and it is not going to change their ability to bond. Not with a parent and often not with their children. Very sad. |
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 Do you agree that a mothers love is unconditional?
there's no such thing as unconditional. everyone has their limits. IMO . . . real love is unconditional... if it is not then it isn't love. Love does not have conditions, we do. Love would never ask what we ask of each other sometimes. All you need is love - John Lennon
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Edited by
Want2B5ft
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Wed 07/29/09 12:53 AM
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What about unconditional love between a mother and an adopted child? Do you think it is possible or never really exists? I have had day care kids, foster kids, children by birth and adopted children and I can tell you that bonding feeling is basiclly the same. With and adopted child you see them it just hits you like when you are pregnant and you have that "quickening" feeling. Any child you have you have to bond with. If mother and child are both strong and healthy it is a lot easier to bond than if one or both are not. Once a child goes through severe enough abandonment they turn within and pretty much are never able to bond. Those kids can get all the love in the world and it is not going to change their ability to bond. Not with a parent and often not with their children. Very sad. Can I email you or IM? |
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My love for my sons is.. I learned unconditional love and forgiveness from them, not my own mother. My mom hates me
I'm so sorry for you, I am familiar with that as well. |
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An individual IS an individual. Not all mother's are what I would call "maternal", so no, not all mothers love unconditionally.
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usually, but unconditional love doesnt mean unconditional support. I love mine unconditionally but I wont support any decisions they make to do wrong. I will still love them though, right or wrong.
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No. It should be.... but I've seen plenty of cases where it's not. i agree with this post |
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Do you agree that a mothers love is unconditional?
Yes and the same for the father's love . |
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usually, but unconditional love doesnt mean unconditional support. I love mine unconditionally but I wont support any decisions they make to do wrong. I will still love them though, right or wrong. This is a very good point. Often people think that when someone does not support whatever they want to do they don't love or have their back. Sometimes the hardest thing to do, but responsible and loving thing is to say no, your wrong, or I won't be a part of this. Parenting often is about doing the hard stuff. |
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Do you agree that a mothers love is unconditional?
I believe that it should be in all cases, but as it's already been said, it's sad to say that that's not always the case... Personally I don't see how a mother couldn't have unconditional love for their child, but then again I'm not a pos ;] |
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A mother's love is always unconditional
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A mother's love is always unconditional
no so..my mother has many conditions based on her beliefs..she holds back her love when I disappoint her, she always has. |
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My love for my sons is.. I learned unconditional love and forgiveness from them, not my own mother. My mom hates me
LadyLid...Maybe it's not really hate, maybe it's something she never did with you that makes her feel guilty. My mom acts like she hates me too...I guess parents are just funny like that??? |
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What about unconditional love between a mother and an adopted child? Do you think it is possible or never really exists? Yes, a mother can love an adopted child unconditionally. |
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My love for my sons is.. I learned unconditional love and forgiveness from them, not my own mother. My mom hates me
LadyLid...Maybe it's not really hate, maybe it's something she never did with you that makes her feel guilty. My mom acts like she hates me too...I guess parents are just funny like that??? I know she doesn't HATE me..the word hate means to reject..and she does reject me when I don't do as she would like me to do..that is conditional love. Thank God I had my sons to teach me... I guess now were those funny acting parents... 
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A mother's love is always unconditional
no so..my mother has many conditions based on her beliefs..she holds back her love when I disappoint her, she always has. Sounds alot like my mom...I guess the only thing we can do is just remind them that we love them, no matter what? 
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Do you agree that a mothers love is unconditional?
I receive that love from my mother and my child receives it from me. |
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A mother's love is always unconditional
no so..my mother has many conditions based on her beliefs..she holds back her love when I disappoint her, she always has. Sounds alot like my mom...I guess the only thing we can do is just remind them that we love them, no matter what?
yep..and be grateful because we know what it's like to be a mom..and forgive....
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