Topic: Quick question
agbbieannie's photo
Sun 06/07/09 08:16 PM
ocean......... sorry for you sadness try the 90 day rule. Like an employer does........ :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

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Sun 06/07/09 08:24 PM

ocean......... sorry for you sadness try the 90 day rule. Like an employer does........ :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:


drinks drinks drinks

beautyfrompain's photo
Sun 06/07/09 08:28 PM
Don't put out before marriage.

oceanxbreeze's photo
Sun 06/07/09 09:15 PM
Current boyfriend yes, and we've been together a little over a month. And it was the first time. It was bad for me, but not for him so I don't think that would have caused this behavior. lol. Especially since he was trying to make plans with me for New Years already.



I've been used for sex before and I honestly thought this time was a lot different. lol.

Yeah, I'm not having sex for a long long time with any boyfriends now.

oceanxbreeze's photo
Sun 06/07/09 09:16 PM

sex should enhance a relationship, if not, then they probably weren't after a relationship to begin with.


Which is what he and I discussed, about how it wouldn't hurt us just make us a better couple.

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 06/07/09 09:17 PM
have you asked him why yet?

oceanxbreeze's photo
Sun 06/07/09 09:17 PM

nothing wrecks it for me more than a woman that lays there. If she can't get on top and work it I am wasting my efforts!

Then again I am a pig.

Oh no, I did all the work. lol.

oceanxbreeze's photo
Sun 06/07/09 09:18 PM

have you asked him why yet?

I tried yes, he's been flat out ignoring me since yesterday morning.

earthytaurus76's photo
Sun 06/07/09 09:23 PM

He might be freaked out by the feelings he is having for you and doesn't know what to do with them....


I think shes right on. I dated a guy last year who was like that, we had a 10 year age difference. It was wierd, but great sex.


Sounds like hes immature.

oceanxbreeze's photo
Sun 06/07/09 09:25 PM


He might be freaked out by the feelings he is having for you and doesn't know what to do with them....


I think shes right on. I dated a guy last year who was like that, we had a 10 year age difference. It was wierd, but great sex.


Sounds like hes immature.

We already talked about a lot of things like how he had never felt this way about anyone before and stuff like that, but I don't know. We have an age difference but its only 3 years.

earthytaurus76's photo
Sun 06/07/09 09:29 PM



He might be freaked out by the feelings he is having for you and doesn't know what to do with them....


I think shes right on. I dated a guy last year who was like that, we had a 10 year age difference. It was wierd, but great sex.


Sounds like hes immature.

We already talked about a lot of things like how he had never felt this way about anyone before and stuff like that, but I don't know. We have an age difference but its only 3 years.


Ive never known young men to ever be all that attentive in the first place.

Winx's photo
Sun 06/07/09 09:33 PM


nothing wrecks it for me more than a woman that lays there. If she can't get on top and work it I am wasting my efforts!

Then again I am a pig.


rofl So YOU just want to lay there??


rofl rofl

Atlantis75's photo
Sun 06/07/09 09:35 PM


nothing wrecks it for me more than a woman that lays there. If she can't get on top and work it I am wasting my efforts!

Then again I am a pig.

Oh no, I did all the work. lol.


that makes it even worse. What a looser. Loose him.

GG2's photo
Sun 06/07/09 09:36 PM
I'm sure you guys have made her feel REAL good now!! noway laugh



It's a guy thing. Don't sweat it, sister. Too many of 'em out there.

no photo
Sun 06/07/09 09:38 PM
Edited by michiganman3 on Sun 06/07/09 10:08 PM
The sex stuff can be improved upon if there is a real emotional relationship.

But I think ya kissed a frog. Sorry.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 06/07/09 10:01 PM
Can anyone say " conquest "???

I know you can.

SimplyElla's photo
Sun 06/07/09 10:09 PM
Was said before ---

Either the sex wasn't what he though it would be or should be

OR

He got what he wanted and well just not that into you no more..

ohwell

tngxl65's photo
Sun 06/07/09 10:18 PM
He may be embarassed, knowing it was not good for you. A conversation about it would be good. But truthfully.... if this is the way he's dealing with it, I'm not sure he's worth the effort

no photo
Sun 06/07/09 10:21 PM
Men do things... and people... they ordinarily wouldn't do when they are horny.


After sex... they're able to think again.

darkowl1's photo
Sun 06/07/09 10:29 PM
next.shades really.......next.

it sounds like he's not ready for a relationship.