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Topic: Sorry about this guy's..........
Lilypetal Joined Wed 02/25/09 Posts: 4052	Sun 06/07/09 07:11 PM
Yup, yup ,yup. Guess his computer froze up on him.........again. Look's like I won't be meeting him next week. Helping his dad eh? Funny thing was, he ended up on here when he was supposed to be out. I'm so sick and tired of getting my chain jerked. I hear ya!!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 06/07/09 07:11 PM
A lot of these guys are so bad that they cant even pretend to not be dogs for long enough to actually meet them Awful smartass today, aren't ya?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 06/07/09 07:12 PM
That is pretty sad when a dude is such a loser that he cant even PRETEND to be a gentleman

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sun 06/07/09 07:13 PM
That is pretty sad when a dude is such a loser that he cant even PRETEND to be a gentleman Pretty lame huh Mirror?

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Sun 06/07/09 07:13 PM
i've gotta admit,i'm really good at humping legs

RomanticPrincess09 Joined Thu 05/28/09 Posts: 11	Sun 06/07/09 07:14 PM Edited by RomanticPrincess09 on Sun 06/07/09 07:15 PM


PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 06/07/09 07:14 PM
Woof

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 06/07/09 07:15 PM
That is pretty sad when a dude is such a loser that he cant even PRETEND to be a gentleman Pretty lame huh Mirror? Seems to be somewhat common nowadays

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sun 06/07/09 07:15 PM
We've been chatting for a week. He finally asked for my email address today. Now, I'm sorry that I gave it to him.

RomanticPrincess09 Joined Thu 05/28/09 Posts: 11	Sun 06/07/09 07:16 PM
Guys really don't treat me this way because I don't let them. Maybe it's more in your hands than you think? I just watched "He's just not that into you" and the basic premise is that if a guy really wants to date you, he WILL put in the effort. If you're always putting in more effort than the guy you won't ever have success with men. I am new to this site, but very well spoken!

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sun 06/07/09 07:16 PM
Woof Aw Pats, you'rer a cute puppy.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 06/07/09 07:17 PM
Woof Aw Pats, you'rer a cute puppy.

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Sun 06/07/09 07:17 PM
the dating scene has deformed so bad i think that games and screwing people are practically normal, that alone makes it hell to find a worthy partner

mixmantech Joined Sun 01/11/09 Posts: 1019	Sun 06/07/09 07:17 PM
Ladie's, do you ever want to just give up on finding a SO because every guy seem's to be a dog? Even before you got to meet him face to face? ladys always taking about this maybe we are attracted to people like ourselfs.... maybe its not just the guys??!!!???!!!

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Sun 06/07/09 07:18 PM Edited by msmyka on Sun 06/07/09 07:18 PM
Guys really don't treat me this way because I don't let them. Maybe it's more in your hands than you think? I just watched "He's just not that into you" and the basic premise is that if a guy really wants to date you, he WILL put in the effort. If you're always putting in more effort than the guy you won't ever have success with men. I am new to this site, but very well spoken! Welcome!

EZ4Sheezy Joined Tue 01/20/09 Posts: 4694	Sun 06/07/09 07:18 PM
If there was a priceless diamond in every pile of coal, how hard would you look?

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sun 06/07/09 07:18 PM
Guys really don't treat me this way because I don't let them. Maybe it's more in your hands than you think? I just watched "He's just not that into you" and the basic premise is that if a guy really wants to date you, he WILL put in the effort. If you're always putting in more effort than the guy you won't ever have success with men. I am new to this site, but very well spoken! Let them. Let them? I am not an ignoramous. It doesn't even get to a relationship stage.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sun 06/07/09 07:20 PM
If there was a priceless diamond in every pile of coal, how hard would you look? Think I need a new shovel and pick axe.

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Sun 06/07/09 07:21 PM Edited by Atlantis75 on Sun 06/07/09 07:22 PM
We've been chatting for a week. He finally asked for my email address today. Now, I'm sorry that I gave it to him. Can there be the possibility of that you might have said something to scare him away and it's not his fault? I'm just saying it, because if I look back and see why I couldn't keep somebody was perhaps that it was I, who said something or as the talk went on, she realized I am not the one she was looking for. Is there a possibility that he has came to the same conclusion and just wanted to end it before it could become more and the breakup would be more painful? Anyway...sorry to hear that it didn't work out.

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Sun 06/07/09 07:23 PM
I wasn't trying to imply anything about you personally. Just trying to share what I have learned from MY past experiences. This goes both ways for men and women, if one person is putting in more effort (and women tend to do that more often than men) it's just not going anywhere. Some people would call it a "head game" but with guys you really have to let them think the whole thing is their idea.