Topic: question for the guys
Queene123's photo
Sun 06/07/09 11:00 AM
Edited by Queene123 on Sun 06/07/09 11:01 AM
between age of 30s-50s

if you knew me and knew about my health issue
would you still want a relationship with me or another person that had the same health issue,, and not make pity on me because of that..

im just wanting your point of view

cottonelle's photo
Sun 06/07/09 11:07 AM
what is the health issue? if you dont mind me asking

OrangeCat's photo
Sun 06/07/09 11:09 AM
I was with someone who had cancer if that tells u any thing.




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Sun 06/07/09 11:13 AM
I wouldn't only because I'm looking for someone who potentially would live longer than me.

If I were in the opposite shoes, I'd look for someone with a similar health issue so that neither of you takes the other person's illness as an excuse.

Queene123's photo
Sun 06/07/09 11:18 AM

what is the health issue? if you dont mind me asking


its posted in my profile

Winx's photo
Sun 06/07/09 11:24 AM


what is the health issue? if you dont mind me asking


its posted in my profile


Queene,

I read it. Why don't you talk about the things that you like to do and the things that interest you? You have a health problem. You are NOT your health problem.flowerforyou

Queene123's photo
Sun 06/07/09 11:27 AM



what is the health issue? if you dont mind me asking


its posted in my profile


Queene,

I read it. Why don't you talk about the things that you like to do and the things that interest you? You have a health problem. You are NOT your health problem.flowerforyou



well yea i know im not the health problem.. but most guys dont know how to deal with someone that has the issue

OrangeCat's photo
Sun 06/07/09 11:32 AM
then they dont deserve ya



every one has some kind of prob,no one is perfect,most just wont admit to any thing.

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Sun 06/07/09 11:34 AM




what is the health issue? if you dont mind me asking


its posted in my profile


Queene,

I read it. Why don't you talk about the things that you like to do and the things that interest you? You have a health problem. You are NOT your health problem.flowerforyou



well yea i know im not the health problem.. but most guys dont know how to deal with someone that has the issue



You said in your profile that you can do everything anyone else can. Telling people to have a health issue is like telling your opponent in Chess that you can't win because your queen is in the wrong spot. You essentially give up when you give information out that will make you lose in the long run. Let the other person figure it out, if they never figure it out, then you win.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 06/07/09 11:41 AM

between age of 30s-50s

if you knew me and knew about my health issue
would you still want a relationship with me or another person that had the same health issue,, and not make pity on me because of that..

im just wanting your point of view
flowerforyou If a woman was nice enough in personality, and had other things going for her in life then yes.flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Sun 06/07/09 12:07 PM




what is the health issue? if you dont mind me asking


its posted in my profile


Queene,

I read it. Why don't you talk about the things that you like to do and the things that interest you? You have a health problem. You are NOT your health problem.flowerforyou



well yea i know im not the health problem.. but most guys dont know how to deal with someone that has the issue


But...they don't know anything else about you when they read your profile. Let them know kind of things interest you. Let them know what kinds of things that you like to do.flowerforyou

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 06/07/09 12:10 PM
I have health issues as well. the real keepers are those that will be there in your time of need. Not everyone can handle it...and nothing wrong with that, but you need someone that can flowerforyou