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What if the cheated on is in a coma, does that count? 
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PS. Love your choice of literature (peeked your profile :P) Sorry to go off topic heh. 
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I dont believe anyone is responsible for anyone elses actions. 
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What if the cheated on is in a coma, does that count? There was a lady online here a few months ago with this dilemma to a degree. Her husband is a vegetable, she's taken care of him for 9 years, even though he can't recognize her.... She didn't just "put him away". And she'd remained faithful for 9 years of this, was getting to the end of her fuse for the need to be touched, loved, make love.... That's a really hard situation of which I would NOT make any judgement. |
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If the relationship is so bad just get out.Just think how u would feel if someone cheated on u.
I have a friend who says that every man cheats,but i totally disagree with that statement. That's because he wants to cheat on wife. Yuk.not right.Woman cheat too.Its all disgusting
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What if the cheated on is in a coma, does that count? There was a lady online here a few months ago with this dilemma to a degree. Her husband is a vegetable, she's taken care of him for 9 years, even though he can't recognize her.... She didn't just "put him away". And she'd remained faithful for 9 years of this, was getting to the end of her fuse for the need to be touched, loved, make love.... That's a really hard situation of which I would NOT make any judgement.  That's sad
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If the relationship is so bad just get out.Just think how u would feel if someone cheated on u.
I have a friend who says that every man cheats,but i totally disagree with that statement. That's because he wants to cheat on wife. Yuk.not right.Woman cheat too.Its all disgusting
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 whoot whoot
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What if the cheated on is in a coma, does that count? There was a lady online here a few months ago with this dilemma to a degree. Her husband is a vegetable, she's taken care of him for 9 years, even though he can't recognize her.... She didn't just "put him away". And she'd remained faithful for 9 years of this, was getting to the end of her fuse for the need to be touched, loved, make love.... That's a really hard situation of which I would NOT make any judgement. In this situation, if you apply my rules of reason, rationality and logic. She is unable to communicate in an effective manner with her significant other, in which case she would need to weigh up whether or not she wished to remain in the relationship. In order to sleep with a clear conscience I would think that she would need to discuss her thoughts and intended actions with her husband, even if he is unresponsive and cannot digest the information. Make the decision public, so as not to attract the scorn of others with a vested interest in the situation and then go about her business. Keep in mind this does not mean that she would need to completely cut off her husband from care, or out of her life. She could continue to care for him and have him as a part of her life indefinitely, so long as she had cleared the air surrounding the status of the relationship and removed all stigma/taboo surrounding same with those whom had a vested interest, there is no reason why she could not pursue both endeavors. |
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What if the cheated on is in a coma, does that count? There was a lady online here a few months ago with this dilemma to a degree. Her husband is a vegetable, she's taken care of him for 9 years, even though he can't recognize her.... She didn't just "put him away". And she'd remained faithful for 9 years of this, was getting to the end of her fuse for the need to be touched, loved, make love.... That's a really hard situation of which I would NOT make any judgement. In this situation, if you apply my rules of reason, rationality and logic. She is unable to communicate in an effective manner with her significant other, in which case she would need to weigh up whether or not she wished to remain in the relationship. In order to sleep with a clear conscience I would think that she would need to discuss her thoughts and intended actions with her husband, even if he is unresponsive and cannot digest the information. Make the decision public, so as not to attract the scorn of others with a vested interest in the situation and then go about her business. Keep in mind this does not mean that she would need to completely cut off her husband from care, or out of her life. She could continue to care for him and have him as a part of her life indefinitely, so long as she had cleared the air surrounding the status of the relationship and removed all stigma/taboo surrounding same with those whom had a vested interest, there is no reason why she could not pursue both endeavors.
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Edited by
earthytaurus76
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Tue 06/02/09 09:05 AM
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What if the cheated on is in a coma, does that count? There was a lady online here a few months ago with this dilemma to a degree. Her husband is a vegetable, she's taken care of him for 9 years, even though he can't recognize her.... She didn't just "put him away". And she'd remained faithful for 9 years of this, was getting to the end of her fuse for the need to be touched, loved, make love.... That's a really hard situation of which I would NOT make any judgement. In this situation, if you apply my rules of reason, rationality and logic. She is unable to communicate in an effective manner with her significant other, in which case she would need to weigh up whether or not she wished to remain in the relationship. In order to sleep with a clear conscience I would think that she would need to discuss her thoughts and intended actions with her husband, even if he is unresponsive and cannot digest the information. Make the decision public, so as not to attract the scorn of others with a vested interest in the situation and then go about her business. Keep in mind this does not mean that she would need to completely cut off her husband from care, or out of her life. She could continue to care for him and have him as a part of her life indefinitely, so long as she had cleared the air surrounding the status of the relationship and removed all stigma/taboo surrounding same with those whom had a vested interest, there is no reason why she could not pursue both endeavors. Oh no he didnt.  
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Edited by
earthytaurus76
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Tue 06/02/09 09:05 AM
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oops
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What if the cheated on is in a coma, does that count? There was a lady online here a few months ago with this dilemma to a degree. Her husband is a vegetable, she's taken care of him for 9 years, even though he can't recognize her.... She didn't just "put him away". And she'd remained faithful for 9 years of this, was getting to the end of her fuse for the need to be touched, loved, make love.... That's a really hard situation of which I would NOT make any judgement. In this situation, if you apply my rules of reason, rationality and logic. She is unable to communicate in an effective manner with her significant other, in which case she would need to weigh up whether or not she wished to remain in the relationship. In order to sleep with a clear conscience I would think that she would need to discuss her thoughts and intended actions with her husband, even if he is unresponsive and cannot digest the information. Make the decision public, so as not to attract the scorn of others with a vested interest in the situation and then go about her business. Keep in mind this does not mean that she would need to completely cut off her husband from care, or out of her life. She could continue to care for him and have him as a part of her life indefinitely, so long as she had cleared the air surrounding the status of the relationship and removed all stigma/taboo surrounding same with those whom had a vested interest, there is no reason why she could not pursue both endeavors. Oh no he didnt.
Hahaha I so did, its easy to sit here as an outsider and try to apply objective methods to a subjective situation, but at the end of the day, we all know the emotional gravity a decision like that would have on an individual and not all would be capable of breaking down the situation into a simplified manner. If I have learned one thing in my short time on earth, it is that life is complicated enough, if you can simplify it in any way, shape or form to help make things more tangible, do so. |
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What if the cheated on is in a coma, does that count? There was a lady online here a few months ago with this dilemma to a degree. Her husband is a vegetable, she's taken care of him for 9 years, even though he can't recognize her.... She didn't just "put him away". And she'd remained faithful for 9 years of this, was getting to the end of her fuse for the need to be touched, loved, make love.... That's a really hard situation of which I would NOT make any judgement. In this situation, if you apply my rules of reason, rationality and logic. She is unable to communicate in an effective manner with her significant other, in which case she would need to weigh up whether or not she wished to remain in the relationship. In order to sleep with a clear conscience I would think that she would need to discuss her thoughts and intended actions with her husband, even if he is unresponsive and cannot digest the information. Make the decision public, so as not to attract the scorn of others with a vested interest in the situation and then go about her business. Keep in mind this does not mean that she would need to completely cut off her husband from care, or out of her life. She could continue to care for him and have him as a part of her life indefinitely, so long as she had cleared the air surrounding the status of the relationship and removed all stigma/taboo surrounding same with those whom had a vested interest, there is no reason why she could not pursue both endeavors. Oh no he didnt.
He did
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There is no excuse or reason for cheating period
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There is no excuse or reason for cheating period
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