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ok heres the thing... yes I know I have said I am completely happy with Randy an I am...but I can't stand in here in NJ anymore. I wanna go home, we talked about it an he pretty much said the ball is in my court.. to do what I think is right. I have no clue what to do. He said we can be good friends if I go back, as much as I wanna go back to Oh.. I cant stand the fact of losing him, he is my everything. I am so lost, I'm torn between him an going back home. What do I do?
 
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Go home
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why would you go home?
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Go back home for awhile. Maybe being back home you'll discover what you really want
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How far away is home? I do agree NJ sucks, but which is more important to you?
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Home is Ohio. The the thing... both are important to me. I can't just go home for a while then come back.. I have a job now so I can't do that. an I'm afraid if I did go home I would later see it was a mistake to leave him.
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Home is where the heart is...New Jersey sucks...but Ohio sucks too...so follow your heart
 cheers
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Home is Ohio. The the thing... both are important to me. I can't just go home for a while then come back.. I have a job now so I can't do that. an I'm afraid if I did go home I would later see it was a mistake to leave him. |
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Home is Ohio. The the thing... both are important to me. I can't just go home for a while then come back.. I have a job now so I can't do that. an I'm afraid if I did go home I would later see it was a mistake to leave him. Ohio isn't terribly far away, but are you both willing to do the distance relationship thing or will it end if you leave? I know for me, my family means the world to me, but if I was truly in love with someone I couldn't let them go. |
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Home is Ohio. The the thing... both are important to me. I can't just go home for a while then come back.. I have a job now so I can't do that. an I'm afraid if I did go home I would later see it was a mistake to leave him. Ohio isn't terribly far away, but are you both willing to do the distance relationship thing or will it end if you leave? I know for me, my family means the world to me, but if I was truly in love with someone I couldn't let them go. Thats were I'm lost at, I love him an don't wanna let go but I wanna go home sooo bad. I miss everything bout ohio an my friends/family. Im not happy here. |
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Im tring to fit into this mold an its not working.
 I hate life at times.... everything is soo confusing
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if you are not happy there it will probably come between the two of you eventually...maybe try moving to a different part of town?
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Is he willing to move to Ohio with you? Sounds like you really have your mind made up to go back home. And I do agree, if you are that unhappy the relationship is going to suffer badly.
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I asked him that an he said no he can't move away from here.. its everything he knows... I know the feeling. He has moved for women before an hated it. so he understands where I am coming from.
I want to go back home but I know if I do the pain from losing him is gonna be deep an gonna hurt for a while. Hes more then just my lover.. hes my best friend. Moving to a differ part of town in not in the question now. dont have the money for it. |
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I asked him that an he said no he can't move away from here.. its everything he knows... I know the feeling. He has moved for women before an hated it. so he understands where I am coming from. I want to go back home but I know if I do the pain from losing him is gonna be deep an gonna hurt for a while. Hes more then just my lover.. hes my best friend. Moving to a differ part of town in not in the question now. dont have the money for it. |
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northest... by canton/arkon
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northest... by canton/arkon  im southern ohio...was gonna say we could oh nevermind
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What it boils down to then is
Lose him and move back home? Hurts for awhile but most of us have been through that before and it does get better..or Stay there and be misserable and lose him anyway,because if your not happy thats goin to come out in the relationship. |
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northest... by canton/arkon im southern ohio...was gonna say we could oh nevermind
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What it boils down to then is Lose him and move back home? Hurts for awhile but most of us have been through that before and it does get better..or Stay there and be misserable and lose him anyway,because if your not happy thats goin to come out in the relationship. |
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