Topic: attraction
Dan99's photo
Wed 05/27/09 06:17 PM

I personally prefer thickness to length blushing


Do you have a bucket?! haha






Dont answer that!

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Wed 05/27/09 06:20 PM

What is the main thing women are attracted to in a man,I know every woman is different but there has to be a common factor that women look for


This is what I've seen:

They say "I want an intelligent guy" or "I'm looking for a guy with a sense of humor" or "a guy who doesn't expect me to take care of him" or "someone who's a good communicator" or "a guy who isn't just out to play games" or somebody who will accept me for who I am...."

But if you put any or all of those in front of them, then suddenly they don't want that anymore.

I think a lot of it is sheer pretense -- they say what they think they're supposed to say, in order to avoid the appearance of being shallow or superficial. Of course, it defeats their whole purpose anyway, since now no one (maybe not even themselves) has any idea what they're looking for at all.

In my experience, the only thing they're really looking for is a guy who can be "domesticated" -- that means: turned into a farm animal, complacent, compliant, entirely trainable, and totally
incapable of independent function.

Since that doesn't seem to work on me, my relationships tend to be rather short -- which is OK. I tend to vanish at the first appearance of the domesticatrix.

I still hold out some hope that there may be somebody out there who might actually be interested in someone intelligent and creative enough to have authored and published two books, with a third coming out soon.

But I'm not holding my breath.

auburngirl's photo
Wed 05/27/09 06:21 PM


What is the main thing women are attracted to in a man,I know every woman is different but there has to be a common factor that women look for


This is what I've seen:

They say "I want an intelligent guy" or "I'm looking for a guy with a sense of humor" or "a guy who doesn't expect me to take care of him" or "someone who's a good communicator" or "a guy who isn't just out to play games" or somebody who will accept me for who I am...."

But if you put any or all of those in front of them, then suddenly they don't want that anymore.

I think a lot of it is sheer pretense -- they say what they think they're supposed to say, in order to avoid the appearance of being shallow or superficial. Of course, it defeats their whole purpose anyway, since now no one (maybe not even themselves) has any idea what they're looking for at all.

In my experience, the only thing they're really looking for is a guy who can be "domesticated" -- that means: turned into a farm animal, complacent, complinat, entirely trainable, and totally
incapable of independent function.

Since that doesn't seem to work on me, my relationships tend to be rather short -- which is OK. I tend to vanish at the first appearance of the domesticatrix.

I still hold out some hope that there may be somebody out there who might actually be interested in someone intelligent and creative enough to have authored and published two books, with a third coming out soon.

But I'm not holding my breath.




You paint with a broad brush my friend.

Mr_Music's photo
Wed 05/27/09 06:21 PM
What is to big and what is to small


Used like a verb?

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Wed 05/27/09 06:23 PM



What is the main thing women are attracted to in a man,I know every woman is different but there has to be a common factor that women look for


This is what I've seen:

They say "I want an intelligent guy" or "I'm looking for a guy with a sense of humor" or "a guy who doesn't expect me to take care of him" or "someone who's a good communicator" or "a guy who isn't just out to play games" or somebody who will accept me for who I am...."

But if you put any or all of those in front of them, then suddenly they don't want that anymore.

I think a lot of it is sheer pretense -- they say what they think they're supposed to say, in order to avoid the appearance of being shallow or superficial. Of course, it defeats their whole purpose anyway, since now no one (maybe not even themselves) has any idea what they're looking for at all.

In my experience, the only thing they're really looking for is a guy who can be "domesticated" -- that means: turned into a farm animal, complacent, complinat, entirely trainable, and totally
incapable of independent function.

Since that doesn't seem to work on me, my relationships tend to be rather short -- which is OK. I tend to vanish at the first appearance of the domesticatrix.

I still hold out some hope that there may be somebody out there who might actually be interested in someone intelligent and creative enough to have authored and published two books, with a third coming out soon.

But I'm not holding my breath.




You paint with a broad brush my friend.


No I don't -- I said "This is what I've seen." Personal experience. The brush is no broader than the things I've been through myself.

Sharris's photo
Wed 05/27/09 06:26 PM

Now I have a personal question for you ladies,What is to big and what is to small when it comes to the size of a man? Sex wise

brain and pride

beauty314's photo
Wed 05/27/09 06:29 PM


What is the main thing women are attracted to in a man,I know every woman is different but there has to be a common factor that women look for


This is what I've seen:

They say "I want an intelligent guy" or "I'm looking for a guy with a sense of humor" or "a guy who doesn't expect me to take care of him" or "someone who's a good communicator" or "a guy who isn't just out to play games" or somebody who will accept me for who I am...."

But if you put any or all of those in front of them, then suddenly they don't want that anymore.

I think a lot of it is sheer pretense -- they say what they think they're supposed to say, in order to avoid the appearance of being shallow or superficial. Of course, it defeats their whole purpose anyway, since now no one (maybe not even themselves) has any idea what they're looking for at all.

In my experience, the only thing they're really looking for is a guy who can be "domesticated" -- that means: turned into a farm animal, complacent, compliant, entirely trainable, and totally
incapable of independent function.

Since that doesn't seem to work on me, my relationships tend to be rather short -- which is OK. I tend to vanish at the first appearance of the domesticatrix.

I still hold out some hope that there may be somebody out there who might actually be interested in someone intelligent and creative enough to have authored and published two books, with a third coming out soon.

But I'm not holding my breath.


I hate to admit it but its true slaphead
we really don't know what we want, except maybe what we can't have..
thats probably why she wants him so bad

TxsSun's photo
Wed 05/27/09 06:33 PM

What is the main thing women are attracted to in a man,I know every woman is different but there has to be a common factor that women look for



Honesty, nicness, sincerity, oops...that is three laugh

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Sat 05/30/09 07:08 AM


What is the main thing women are attracted to in a man,I know every woman is different but there has to be a common factor that women look for


This is what I've seen:

They say "I want an intelligent guy" or "I'm looking for a guy with a sense of humor" or "a guy who doesn't expect me to take care of him" or "someone who's a good communicator" or "a guy who isn't just out to play games" or somebody who will accept me for who I am...."

But if you put any or all of those in front of them, then suddenly they don't want that anymore.

I think a lot of it is sheer pretense -- they say what they think they're supposed to say, in order to avoid the appearance of being shallow or superficial. Of course, it defeats their whole purpose anyway, since now no one (maybe not even themselves) has any idea what they're looking for at all.

In my experience, the only thing they're really looking for is a guy who can be "domesticated" -- that means: turned into a farm animal, complacent, compliant, entirely trainable, and totally
incapable of independent function.

Since that doesn't seem to work on me, my relationships tend to be rather short -- which is OK. I tend to vanish at the first appearance of the domesticatrix.

I still hold out some hope that there may be somebody out there who might actually be interested in someone intelligent and creative enough to have authored and published two books, with a third coming out soon.

But I'm not holding my breath.



You're right Lex, that type of woman exists, but surely there are others. I know many of us are independent and would not even think about domesticating and making complacent a man. Where would the fun be in that? I personally like men to be themselves, quirks, faults and all. I would be bored with someone that catered to my every whim. To me, that's a turn-off. If there's a need to change someone, that isn't the right person.

longhairbiker's photo
Sat 05/30/09 07:29 AM
Lies! All lies I tell you!

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Sat 05/30/09 07:38 AM



What is the main thing women are attracted to in a man,I know every woman is different but there has to be a common factor that women look for


This is what I've seen:

They say "I want an intelligent guy" or "I'm looking for a guy with a sense of humor" or "a guy who doesn't expect me to take care of him" or "someone who's a good communicator" or "a guy who isn't just out to play games" or somebody who will accept me for who I am...."

But if you put any or all of those in front of them, then suddenly they don't want that anymore.

I think a lot of it is sheer pretense -- they say what they think they're supposed to say, in order to avoid the appearance of being shallow or superficial. Of course, it defeats their whole purpose anyway, since now no one (maybe not even themselves) has any idea what they're looking for at all.

In my experience, the only thing they're really looking for is a guy who can be "domesticated" -- that means: turned into a farm animal, complacent, compliant, entirely trainable, and totally
incapable of independent function.

Since that doesn't seem to work on me, my relationships tend to be rather short -- which is OK. I tend to vanish at the first appearance of the domesticatrix.

I still hold out some hope that there may be somebody out there who might actually be interested in someone intelligent and creative enough to have authored and published two books, with a third coming out soon.

But I'm not holding my breath.



You're right Lex, that type of woman exists, but surely there are others. I know many of us are independent and would not even think about domesticating and making complacent a man. Where would the fun be in that? I personally like men to be themselves, quirks, faults and all. I would be bored with someone that catered to my every whim. To me, that's a turn-off. If there's a need to change someone, that isn't the right person.


Exactly -- what's the point in being with someone whose lifestyle, beliefs, etc., you can't tolerate?

And I assume there are other kinds of women out there -- just based on law of averages, if nothing else -- but I have yet to see them. They remain unfounded rumors at this point.


tessa68's photo
Sat 05/30/09 07:40 AM
eyes and smilelove love love

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Sat 05/30/09 07:43 AM

What is the main thing women are attracted to in a man,I know every woman is different but there has to be a common factor that women look for
He must own a brain and use it. Don't be an idiot. Be responsible. That doesnt mean not have fun.

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 05/30/09 07:46 AM
It's been my experience that what most women are looking for is a nice domestic long hair cat and a bowl of really good ice cream.

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Sat 05/30/09 07:49 AM

It's been my experience that what most women are looking for is a nice domestic long hair cat and a bowl of really good ice cream.
hahahaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!laugh drinker

jebbertoya's photo
Sat 05/30/09 07:58 AM
honesty, confidence and stability. Also Penis size 4" too short and anything over 7" too long. Also don't want them too thick like to keep my shape.

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Sat 05/30/09 08:13 AM
haha

This penis is tooooooooooooooooooo small!!!!

This penis is tooooooooooooooooooo big!!!


Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh this penis is JUST RIGHT!!laugh drinker :banana:

Oh man......I have to stop reading those childrens books!!noway

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Sat 05/30/09 08:29 AM

Confidence is the key. You dont have to be the best looking guy in the room or have the most money if she can tell you happy with WHO you are.




Well said :smile:.

earthytaurus76's photo
Sat 05/30/09 08:31 AM
Someone who is personable, down to earth, and admits that hes has problems, isnt perfect, someone humble. hopefully he can laugh, and isnt overly serious, and is a christian.

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 05/30/09 08:44 AM

What is the main thing women are attracted to in a man,I know every woman is different but there has to be a common factor that women look for


The size of the chainsaw.