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Topic: why do so many people play mind games??
crystel's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:04 AM
Hi guys just wondering why so many people have too play games on these kind of sites?
You start talking too someone getting on really well and then they vanish ignore your messages and just make you feel completely let down by man kind again.
Why if you have built up a friendship, can,t people just be honest and tell you that they are no longer intrested.
Surely we are all adults
Oh well rant over think i shall give up and stick too my dogs they are always loyal xxx

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:05 AM
that happens in real life too. I don't know the answer. I wish some people could just be honest

crystel's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:06 AM

that happens in real life too. I don't know the answer. I wish some people could just be honest
Oh i know but you would think on here its easier than face too face to just say sorry i,m not intrested x

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:07 AM
It happens to the best of us

Just chaulk it up and move on

There are great people here!:heart:

crystel's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:08 AM

It happens to the best of us

Just chaulk it up and move on

There are great people here!:heart:
i know met some great people on herelove flowerforyou

auburngirl's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:09 AM
Because you find very few truly honest people on dating sites. And then sometimes you get lucky and fate smiles on you. happy Games are for children.

kojack's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:09 AM
Women are guilty of this also , not just men

auburngirl's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:11 AM

Women are guilty of this also , not just men


TRUE that Scott.

no photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:13 AM

Hi guys just wondering why so many people have too play games on these kind of sites?
You start talking too someone getting on really well and then they vanish ignore your messages and just make you feel completely let down by man kind again.
Why if you have built up a friendship, can,t people just be honest and tell you that they are no longer intrested.
Surely we are all adults
Oh well rant over think i shall give up and stick too my dogs they are always loyal xxx




It is not just on these sites. It seems to be the way of the world now. People are utterly disposable.

graysteed's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:14 AM
lol cant talk of sex and food for ever lol

crystel's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:17 AM

Women are guilty of this also , not just men
oh too true thats why i put people and not mensmooched

earthytaurus76's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:18 AM
Edited by earthytaurus76 on Wed 05/27/09 09:19 AM
Thats like the guy the other day that I talked to.. he called, i said a few basic everyday things.. he moaned a little, breathed hard, and then hung up. lol. GEE!!! laugh

Glad I could help ya.. AS YOU WERE SOLDIER!!! :tongue:

Jill298's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:22 AM
It's easier to just vanish than it is to actually tell someone you're no longer interested, then you gotta tell them why and risk a backlash.
Often times people online, don't consider talking to others online as an actual relationship or real friendship. It's just online... not saying thats how I am, just how I've noticed many people to behave.

Jill298's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:22 AM
<---- is the queen of having people vanish on me:angry:

crystel's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:23 AM

Thats like the guy the other day that I talked to.. he called, i said a few basic everyday things.. he moaned a little, breathed hard, and then hung up. lol. GEE!!! laugh

Glad I could help ya.. AS YOU WERE SOLDIER!!! :tongue:
well i don,t mind them going quiet after those kind of phone calls:wink:

FreneteicAmnesic's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:25 AM
Edited by FreneteicAmnesic on Wed 05/27/09 09:27 AM
in the words of Papa Roach
"I hate to say it but it has to be said You look so fragile as I f*** with your head I know it shouldn't but it's getting me off
If sex is the drug then what is the cost"


1 word POWER

no photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:27 AM
I had one fellow the other day where we had a decent rapport going and HE mentioned how people just disappear, and......... then he disappeared!!! laugh laugh laugh It's been 3 days!!! Maybe it's because I said something about just wanting to be friends. Go figure.

darkowl1's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:28 AM
people don't value things anymore, because so far, there's always something around the corner, and like waterloo says, we're becoming disposable, but what they don't realize, is the massive trail these people leave behind them in life, the burnt bridges, the mis-trust, the non-fullfilment of their dreams, for never finding one that keeps them not bored, for like a video game, they have to have a circus of stimulation.....just weed through these. go to the next......life is different now.flowerforyou

auburngirl's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:28 AM

in the words of Papa Roach
"I hate to say it but it has to be said You look so fragile as I f*** with your head I know it shouldn't but it's getting me off
If sex is the drug then what is the cost"


1 word POWER



noway

Jill298's photo
Wed 05/27/09 09:29 AM
I think I unconsciencly only date magicians... They disappear quicker than Houdini. ohwell

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