OMG another of this threads, why man like skinny womans?, i think if
you go to all dating sites that have threads, you will find the answer
in one of them, Because all of them have one. LOL.



Izzy'

I think if you have confidence...if you are big or small, thats what men
find attractive. I also think that when it comes down to falling for
someone, does size really matter? I don't think it really does...I think
its the inner beauty
Looks fade on the outside, so make sure that you have the inner beauty
that can keep growing.
All I can say is be confident in yourself....thats the sexy thing

Thanks for the advice. Maybe I was being a little harsh on myself and
everyone else. For that I am sorry. From now on I am going to be more
positive about myself. Thanks guys and gals.

I am one of those "skinny" gals....... I don't see myself like that. I
came from a very small family. And I have stood in the check out line at
Walmart and the woman behind me asked"oh my, do you have an eating
disorter", you're so small.!!! ouch..(I totally despise being called
skinny) It's what's inside and who you are that matters!!!!Stand tall,
chin up, and be proud of who you are. Our hearts and souls define who we
are, not our size..
((((((((((((hugs to you)))))))))))

hey pinky, confidence goes along way. like unsure said confidence.

Hey dont worry sweety I went threw the same thing. I never had anyone
like me because of my weight and my illness, but then one day on this
site *if you can beleive it* I met a guy who gave me a chance and looked
passed all that and saw me for who I am. We fell in love and are happy
still. You will find someone. Everyone has s special someone, it took my
aunt 53 years to find her love but they have been together 10 years and
they are happy. And she was a virgin until she was 47, being a virgin is
nothing to be ashamed of. I wish I still was a virgin but I didnt really
have a say in the matter. * I was raped* but I dont let that bother me.
I just put it behind me and look to the future.
And dont for one minute think your ugly, your are a beautiful person and
someday someone will see that and everyone who ever treated you unfairly
will realize there horrible loss.

I know what you mean i met this nice guy on here and he thinks that i am
beautiful.

Chit!!!

What ever happened to choice???

I don't care for large women as partners..So..Does that make me a bad
person??

If you like blue and I like green..Who is right??

Get a grip..We all have our oreferences (choices)!!

I for one look for someone who is healthy and will be there for the long
haul. I can see someone carrying a little extra lbs but if it gets
totally out of hand and the person has no desire to correct it at
all...I look the other way. I am a physical person and I need a physical
partner. When I want to go hiking I want her right there wuth me. The
same goes with biking,skiing, watersports and SEX. I need a partner
instead of a bystander. The best thing a person can do with there life
is get on a daily excercise program and have a little pride in your body
because when it fails you early in life you will die..simple as that.

Please..God..Deliver me from this thread..

I promise that I will gain 50 pounds!!!

Pink..I never said that you are not beautiful..

I am just trying to say that all of us, men and women, have our
preferences.

My special lady is ove ten years older than I am.. I did not pick her
for her age..I picked her because she appealed to me..

Age, height, weight..It is all a matter of what pleases the eye,
love..

I once went on this yahoo chatroom and told everyone there I was a 450
lbs. woman with a beard and hairy pits for which I braided and
beaded....DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW MANY GUYS WERE IM'ING ME? LOL. It
also could have been my screen name...Kraft Dinna...

finally !!!! bibby says something kind and somewhat intellegent

alas....it is afterall a personality thing...

i don't think the outside is what really makes a person beautiful why
would you want a cold hearted person over a honest compassionate one. :)
don't worry someone will come along and don't feel left out because your
probably a deeper person than any of them, which makes you a better
person to love. :) keep smiling

I really don't get what your saying. I don't like this subject anymore
and i don't want to talk about it anymore. I understand that everyone
has their own preferences, i do. I may be overweight but i do get hit
on. Well any way i do take care of myself and some people although they
are heavy have tried everything and nothing works for them. So that is
all i am saying about ths subject.

Personally, i blame the skinny girl epidemic on Fashion. Though anyones
heart can be as cold as ice. It all comes down to mannerism and
compatibility.

(I didn't want to say personality, that is so overrated.)

Pinky you look beautiful too me, but then I go for women with class,
intelligence and a beautiful face and u fit all 3!

If you ever feel that way again...here's what you do. Find a mirror,
take a deep breath, and say...

"I am f'ing gorgeous. Not gorgeous. F'ing gorgeous." You have to put
the emphasis on f'ing.

I'm a big girl myself, and I'll tell you, I get hit on by guys pretty
often. More often than I would like to, seeing as it's by guys who are
not attractive to me at all. So instead of jumping on the opportunity
of messing with them, I stay here bitter and lonely. I like to say that
the guy's GPS (girl positioning system) is malfunctioning, and now he is
lost in the middle of West Bubblepuck. (A.k.a. the middle of nowhere)

But yours will come out of West Bubblepuck. Just keep taking care of
yourself. Hygiene and fashion attracts them too.

And with that being said, I went out with a guy who thought that
personal hygiene went away with leg warmers. Not cool, especially when
he didn't brush his teeth. Blech.

(((((heavey)))))