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It does happen. I don't have any of those types of pics but I have kept some just b/c they were special to me and to throw the pics away would be like throwing away the great times we shared... That I can completely understand. Had she said something to that effect...no big deal. Her reaction, however, was much more defensive than it should have been if that were the case. What exactly was your reaction? Were you upset with her? Did you tell her you wanted her to get rid of the pictures? Do you have any old pictures of your own (doesn't have to be naked pictures) that you hold onto ? Would you expect someone to get rid of all pictures of their ex? 1. My reaction was a simple question. Why do you still have them after saying all the crap you did about how badly he treated you?? 2. No 3. Once she told me to mind my own f**king business...it kinda pissed me off. So yes. 4. Kinda. The ones I have are of my dog, and places where I have lived. As far as I know, without actually looking through them at this point, I do not have any pictures of any of my exes. 5. No. I just don't expect to be told that it's not any of my business or any concern of mine when I ask why they are still holding on to them. |
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It does happen. I don't have any of those types of pics but I have kept some just b/c they were special to me and to throw the pics away would be like throwing away the great times we shared... That I can completely understand. Had she said something to that effect...no big deal. Her reaction, however, was much more defensive than it should have been if that were the case. What exactly was your reaction? Were you upset with her? Did you tell her you wanted her to get rid of the pictures? Do you have any old pictures of your own (doesn't have to be naked pictures) that you hold onto ? Would you expect someone to get rid of all pictures of their ex? 1. My reaction was a simple question. Why do you still have them after saying all the crap you did about how badly he treated you?? 2. No 3. Once she told me to mind my own f**king business...it kinda pissed me off. So yes. 4. Kinda. The ones I have are of my dog, and places where I have lived. As far as I know, without actually looking through them at this point, I do not have any pictures of any of my exes. 5. No. I just don't expect to be told that it's not any of my business or any concern of mine when I ask why they are still holding on to them. So, had she not told you to mind your own business, you would have been ok with the pictures? |
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It does happen. I don't have any of those types of pics but I have kept some just b/c they were special to me and to throw the pics away would be like throwing away the great times we shared... That I can completely understand. Had she said something to that effect...no big deal. Her reaction, however, was much more defensive than it should have been if that were the case. What exactly was your reaction? Were you upset with her? Did you tell her you wanted her to get rid of the pictures? Do you have any old pictures of your own (doesn't have to be naked pictures) that you hold onto ? Would you expect someone to get rid of all pictures of their ex? 1. My reaction was a simple question. Why do you still have them after saying all the crap you did about how badly he treated you?? 2. No 3. Once she told me to mind my own f**king business...it kinda pissed me off. So yes. 4. Kinda. The ones I have are of my dog, and places where I have lived. As far as I know, without actually looking through them at this point, I do not have any pictures of any of my exes. 5. No. I just don't expect to be told that it's not any of my business or any concern of mine when I ask why they are still holding on to them. So, had she not told you to mind your own business, you would have been ok with the pictures? For the most part. Her reaction was what made me think she was trying to hide something. |
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