Topic: How do you make yourself feel better after a break-up? | |
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Honestly... I get out my mental little black book and hook up with someone hotter than the ex. |
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Basically just say "oh well" and carry on. Not much a person can do, it just takes time. Darnit anyhow.
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I think that is shallow and a ignoble thing to do. Then all you do is use someone else so you can make your ex jealous. It's not about making the ex jealous. It's about feeling good about yourself. |
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The worse break up I had was with a co-worker and we had to see each other and work closely together at work.......it is much better if you can keep your distance until all the emotions calm down. I do not recommend dating co-worker after that experience, it was tough.
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I go for bachelor number 2!!
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Xanex. It works!
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beatin the sh1t out them helps me
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Sleep.
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I find the biggest home project and dive into it. Drinking isn't an option because I'm afraid I might "drunk call" them and make an a$$ out of myself.
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Depends. Some break ups i'm like meh, others i don't know. I find self truths, try to write something worth recording, and singing my guts out as often as i can. I smile at the good times spent, and try to get ready for the next adventure
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sorry to hear you are in so much pain.... for me? admit it sucks, admit it's hard... surround youself with the people who TRULY love you
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Scootin a new man in always does it for me!
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Depends. Some break ups i'm like meh, others i don't know. I find self truths, try to write something worth recording, and singing my guts out as often as i can. I smile at the good times spent, and try to get ready for the next adventure ![]() This is good advice...you and I have a similar way of looking at things. sorry to hear you are in so much pain.... for me? admit it sucks, admit it's hard... surround youself with the people who TRULY love you ![]() Thank you! I've been kind of making light of it, but this was a serious relationship for me, and it really hurts. I really thought he was "the one". I think you're right about being with loved ones right now though. I usually have a tendency to withdraw, at least from RL friends, when I am struggling. But maybe they are what I need. |
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Honestly... I get out my mental little black book and hook up with someone hotter than the ex. How is it making my ex jealous? It's not like I go blabbing to the world (or the ex) about what I did. It makes ME feel better than that's what the question was about. And I truthfully don't care if I'm using someone to get off because I know that's exactly what they're doing to me. |
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I take time to heal with reading, music and some light meditation. Then take a deep breath, smile like I've never been hurt, put on my big girl panties and move on.
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pig out on ice cream
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masturbate frantically
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I listen to Jazz are stare at the sunset. The only change I would make is add in "at the beach"!!! ![]() |
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masturbate frantically ![]() ![]() But how is that different from your every day life? ![]() ![]() |
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or in my case the TWo TTs....initials an last name btw
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