Recently I have been talking to this guy who is sweeping me off m feet-
We talked over 12 hours on the telephone the first time we talked other
than online and we have been on the phone for hours at a time since
then.
I think about him nonstop.
I am scared (I guess we all are) becuase I have never been in a
relationship that I am not giving and the other person taking.
The relationship he talks about is something I really am after...
am I falling in love with the guy or the words?

Hopefully, it's not just the words that move you. You feel quite happy
with this, and would like the best to happen. Invite me to the
wedding!!! (smile)

well hun only you can answer this question.


I was asking the same when I meet my hubby. when I looked deep in my
self the answer to the question was there.


so look deep in your self love and you will know cuz love is a feeling
that only you know what it is cuz we all feel the sings diffrently.


If you feel diffent for him in a whay that you never felt before,If you
feel that if he would leave it is the end ove the world,if the more time
you spend with out him makes you depressed but the sec he is there your
sun shine is back. these are little tips I can give you ask yoour self
these questions and more and you will find the answer.

Hmm the question I have is have you guys met?

good question shadow. cuz it is a bigg inportence in the
answer.

i know that when i had a problem come up and i thought my son was
missing my first thought was to call him...not because i thought he
could find him or olve the problem but because he gives me a comfort and
safety that noone else seems to give me. he did not judge me rather
offered me support. and during the conversation i had to hang up and
call back at least 10 times trying to handle other calls from the police
or ppl who knew where he was at...not one time did he say call me when
you have time, but he kept supporting me and giving me kind words.
when we talk on the telephone it is not about sex like most guys i have
talked to from online- they always seem to want to steer the
conversation that way.

not yet

meet him hun and then you can finely answer your question.

sweetie I don't mean to say this but don't put all your eggs in one
basket knowing you have not met...being it's the internet anything can
happen and tomorrow he could just vanish

I can soooooooooo relate here...
nurjouyce,you'll know the answers once you meet...
I have the same thing going on right now...
except:
We have met, and were involved 20 years ago...
and now here we are full circle...(WOW)

Personally in your case, it is not just attention, but that is part of
it...you seldom find a man that can say all the right things all the
time, but when you find one that encourages and uplifts, and does not
insult or ridicule...you may be on to something...it is easy to talk
endlessly on the phone and the internet, yet meet, and maybe have
nothing to say...so maybe you are "falling"...but it wont really be love
until you spend real time together...(you already knew that didnt ya?)

Yes sweet
sometimes you have to hear it from your friends
thank you

I know for me and I'm sure it's the same with some of us, we can get
close to someone and share a lot of things as time goes on...I can't say
I haven't been in this situation before but maybe not to the exstent you
are. But what i have learnd is to keep an open mind on things and to let
things happen even though at times I want things to move faster it's all
bout both of us and how willing we are to actually meet and go forword
with it

i think both of us want to meet and go forward

all i gotta say is... meet him as soon as u can... cause ya know that
happened to me... then when i finally met him 3 months later... there
were things that were'nt right... sure a lot was what he said.... and
what was'nt right im not sure.. and not taking the time to figure out
what was'nt right...and when u meet in person there are things that u
find out that are pretty agitating...that in fact u would of never
imagined...

Joyce, I've met a number of men online; some I dated, some I didn't.
But it comes down to the fact that you can't always trust the words; you
have to meet before making ANY kind of commitment. If you feel that he
may be the one for you, by all means, make arrangements to meet. I did
exactly that 5 months ago, and we are now shopping for our house. I
wish you well.

best of luck when ya do meet!!!hopefuly better luck
than i had... for a long distance thing i dont think id try
again...deb besides i found someone here

Hey, Deb . . . that's great!!

thank you
if you asked me before if i believe in long distance romance..i would
say no way never work because i feel it takes more than one visit to
know someone but..

tks greyhound we will see.. scarry lmao

oops onalark lol where is my mind? la la land lol