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One of the threads just had some great comments about discussing sex on the first date, e-mails, etc., and discussing sex period. What are your thoughts about when this is appropriate, how much is appropriate, polite, a turn off, etc. I was pretty surprised by the range of opinion as to what is "right" or whether it is a turn on or a turn off.
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You're going to have a wide variety of opinion, because what is right for some is going to be very wrong for someone else. If someone dives right into sex talk in the opening convo with me, they're going to get shut down hard. To me it's a sign that they have no interest in me as a person & are not looking for anything other than a bounce. However, others probably feel differently, and would be completely ok with it.
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A little fun flirting is OK, but not much more than that.
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I want pictures. No need to waste my time with tiny tots. I want description, detailed descriptions. No vanilla boring wham bammers here. I want references... photos and numbers.
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I want pictures. No need to waste my time with tiny tots. I want description, detailed descriptions. No vanilla boring wham bammers here. I want references... photos and numbers. 
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One of the threads just had some great comments about discussing sex on the first date, e-mails, etc., and discussing sex period. What are your thoughts about when this is appropriate, how much is appropriate, polite, a turn off, etc. I was pretty surprised by the range of opinion as to what is "right" or whether it is a turn on or a turn off.  I don't mind
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I want pictures. No need to waste my time with tiny tots. I want description, detailed descriptions. No vanilla boring wham bammers here. I want references... photos and numbers. You're a HOOT lilith !!
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 i like legit sex threads,i think the "fork and dork" threads are pretty sad. be seeing you
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I want pictures. No need to waste my time with tiny tots. I want description, detailed descriptions. No vanilla boring wham bammers here. I want references... photos and numbers. You're a HOOT lilith !!
I had key lime pie from Cheeseburger Saturday.. thought of you! |
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It would probably be a bad idea to bring up sex on the first date with someone you had just met, but it seems internet dating would change the rules in some way. You would/could have "conversed" with them for weeks or months before the first date. The topic would seem to come up sooner or later.
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I want pictures. No need to waste my time with tiny tots. I want description, detailed descriptions. No vanilla boring wham bammers here. I want references... photos and numbers. I missed you! You give such great.......... answers! |
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You know, it just depends. I think sometimes, if the chemistry is right, it comes up on the first date. And that doesn't even mean that you're headed to the bedroom. It just means you're comfortable talking about it.
Everyone has a comfort zone. Talking about sex happens to be inside mine. |
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If you do not let them know you are interested then you fall into the "friend zone", of course you can not come on too strong, calibrate according to the woman's responses
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Communication is always a good thing.....depends on how smarmy the talk is.
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