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  1. Bad spelling 2. Bare-chested photos 3. Whining about how ex did them wrong.  | 
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     For me, 1. Bad spelling 2. Bare-chested photos 3. Whining about how ex did them wrong. All of those and "looking for intimate encounters". Oh, married and looking too.  | 
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      1. Missing teeth
 
  2. Funky smells eminating from the page. 3. The lists of don'ts is longer than the list of do's.  | 
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      References to bad Ian Fleming novels
     
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        This should be interesting...I'll just sit over here in the corner, and observe a while...  
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      - I'm an open book. Hit me up if you have any questions.
 
  - I'm laid back and easy going. - Any mention of drama, including going on about how they don't want any drama. Those people tend to have the most. - Whining about exes. - Negativity.  | 
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        Edited by
        Tootsweet13
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        Sat 05/16/09 11:23 AM
       
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      More quotes from other people than anything of substance offered from themselves.
     
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      So is telling right off the bat that you are widowed considered being negative? Legit question. 
     
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     So is telling right off the bat that you are widowed considered being negative? Legit question. No, that is completely acceptable.  | 
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     So is telling right off the bat that you are widowed considered being negative? Legit question. I don't think so at all.  | 
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      Okay. Thanks. It is what it is.
     
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      Poor grammar and punctuation; no response in marital status; intimate encounter seeker; and just no "about me" information at all.  It is almost like a half azz effort in trying to find someone.  If you are really wanting to make a connection, you pretty have to jump in with both feet and put yourself out there.  JMHO  
    
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     So is telling right off the bat that you are widowed considered being negative? Legit question. No, I think that's fine.  | 
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     So is telling right off the bat that you are widowed considered being negative? Legit question. I would think that would be the same thing as saying what status you are at in your life...weather it be widowed, divorced, single, or married. JMO   
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        EZ4Sheezy
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      > short profiles - the ones that say if you wanna know anything, just ask
 
  > long profiles ending in the same way > generic profiles > demanding profiles > any mention of drama or games <----BIG TURNOFF > mention of exes or divorce > no pics > fake pics > monotonous pics > bathroom mirror pics > shirtless pics for the guys. the ladies can post all the shirtless pics they want     
> bad spelling, grammar and punctuation > walls of text with no breaks in between paragraphs > trying to abbreviate words instead of just spelling them out  | 
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      They could always just follow MY lead and just put "Yup".  
    
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     Okay. Thanks. It is what it is. auburngirl, you have a really nice profile!   
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     Okay. Thanks. It is what it is. auburngirl, you have a really nice profile!   
Awww thanks Toots! Do ya wanna hook up?   
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   This should be interesting...I'll just sit over here in the corner, and observe a while...
 
    