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| Topic: Small children.......Deal Breaker????? | |
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the only part of her having a child would be putting the child first
your sig other comes first and then both of you should put the child next |
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Thank you all I really appreciate the comments. From them I am thinking I might be spending night alone for the next 11 years lol. She is more than worth it. I have grown kids also all on their own so I do have babysitters. What about eldlerly parents living with someone? Is that a deal breaker also? We are the sandwich generation, could be small kids could be elderly parents. I don't have my parents any more but would like thoughts on this issue also. Have a great weekend everyone. 
Hi, fellow St. Louisian. I'm doing something similar to you. lol |
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Almost certainly a deal breaker
I have twins and while I have no problems pulling women (Not boasting) the moment they find out I have twins they are off like a bat out of hell. Like they bolt as the wild horse will do 
I don't blame them as the presupposition is I may be looking for a mother for them which can not be further removed than the truth as I am a very good mother as well as father for them. However the fact remains that kids are deal breakers but I don't care |
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For me it's not a deal breaker--i have a 13 year old
at home--and i have the patience of a saint--luckily, my problem is that my son is special needs---most men don't want anything to do with that--mostly because i can't go at the drop of a hat--i have to plan an outing or make sure there is someone available to look in on my son--- |
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I have 3 boys, the youngest is 15.... I really wouldn't be interested in being with anyone who has one younger..I raised my boys alone and I don't want to raise anymore.
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Deal breaker for me
No more little ones!! I want it to be me and my man time Jmo 
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I have 3 boys, the youngest is 15.... I really wouldn't be interested in being with anyone who has one younger..I raised my boys alone and I don't want to raise anymore. AD...that was after divorce....I never had children and was more than thrilled with the thought of being the "stepmother". Years later, I work with children and see them all day from 5 to 18. I know how great they can be and the reverse. The worse part is all the needs, medical, dental, clothes, etc. Hard to step into that role for most people... |
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I raised my own and helped raise my late husbands children. I have also taken care of my gkids when they were little and the parents needed help...At this time in my life( I am older than most here) I don't want to take on any more young children...
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Deal Breaker. When I was 25 I met and eventually married a man with 3 children 11, 13 and 18. I never was a mother figure-more like an older sister. When they're Dad said no on anything it was my fault. I accepted the bad guy role and today have a great relationship with them. We also had 2 sons together and the kids are all close. Did I go through rough times? Yes. Plenty. At this time in my life my youngest is almost 18. I am ready to be done with raising children. I could probably handle a teenager but younger would be a deal breaker for me. I think 28 years of raising children has given me a right to "me" time.
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