Topic: One of those days....
Seakolony's photo
Fri 05/08/09 07:37 AM

Having one of those days....

I am generally a strong person and I handle everything and all my responsiblities to the best I can. But just one little thing got to me today. :cry: Now I am totally derailed today. ohwell I am just trying to hold myself together cause I am at work.

So, I guess I am writing to all the single mothers (applies to single fathers too) out there. We all have these days when being strong isn't an option. But, just know that you aren't the only one out there that has these days.

When you worry all night about paying the bills, or your children having a good education, or raising a well-rounded and healthy child... I am there with ya!


Okay.... done venting!

Been there too!!
bbbbbummer, but I understand......keep your chin up tanyaann :smile:

tanyaann's photo
Fri 05/08/09 07:38 AM


Having one of those days....

I am generally a strong person and I handle everything and all my responsiblities to the best I can. But just one little thing got to me today. :cry: Now I am totally derailed today. ohwell I am just trying to hold myself together cause I am at work.

So, I guess I am writing to all the single mothers (applies to single fathers too) out there. We all have these days when being strong isn't an option. But, just know that you aren't the only one out there that has these days.

When you worry all night about paying the bills, or your children having a good education, or raising a well-rounded and healthy child... I am there with ya!


Okay.... done venting!

Been there too!!
bbbbbummer, but I understand......keep your chin up tanyaann :smile:


:wink: Of course, my fellow social worker would be able to empathize! :smile: Thanks!

tanyaann's photo
Fri 05/08/09 07:47 AM
Thanks everyone! I am definately calmer than I was earlier! flowerforyou

Seakolony's photo
Fri 05/08/09 07:47 AM



Having one of those days....

I am generally a strong person and I handle everything and all my responsiblities to the best I can. But just one little thing got to me today. :cry: Now I am totally derailed today. ohwell I am just trying to hold myself together cause I am at work.

So, I guess I am writing to all the single mothers (applies to single fathers too) out there. We all have these days when being strong isn't an option. But, just know that you aren't the only one out there that has these days.

When you worry all night about paying the bills, or your children having a good education, or raising a well-rounded and healthy child... I am there with ya!


Okay.... done venting!

Been there too!!
bbbbbummer, but I understand......keep your chin up tanyaann :smile:


:wink: Of course, my fellow social worker would be able to empathize! :smile: Thanks!


Of course anytime dear!!

franshade's photo
Fri 05/08/09 07:48 AM
hey sunshine, sorry you're having one of those days

{{{sending you a huge hug}}} flowerforyou

tanyaann's photo
Fri 05/08/09 07:51 AM

hey sunshine, sorry you're having one of those days

{{{sending you a huge hug}}} flowerforyou


Thank you! :smile:flowerforyou

justme659's photo
Fri 05/08/09 07:57 AM


Having one of those days....


me too

I had surgery yesterday. a 7 or 8 inch incision from the crook of my elbow into my armpit. and it HURTS

but even so I have to drive an hour into the city for my dialysis treatment. so I can't really take pain meds unless I time it to kick in right when I get there

all I can do is wait and be patient for it to heal and quit hurting


WOW, QUIET!!! I'm so sorry to hear!! I hope you get better SOON!!! smooched


Double ditto from me: Robin to Robin

waving Texas stranger

no photo
Fri 05/08/09 07:58 AM
The strongest people I know of are single mothers. and single fathers. They have to do it all for themselves and their children. I have the greatest admiration for you and all others in your situation. sending you one of those hugs((((((tanyaann)))) and one of my lolipops..hope everything gets better for you

directandwrite's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:01 AM
Edited by directandwrite on Fri 05/08/09 08:02 AM
Hey Tanya! Hang in there sweetie!! flowerforyou flowerforyou flowers

It's Friday at least!!! I know what you mean though, I have had one of those lives.... We all love you here though! :wink:

Only, I'm not a single mother or father...I can be a single friend! happy

Want2B5ft's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:02 AM
Hang in there! flowers :thumbsup: flowers

tanyaann's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:02 AM

The strongest people I know of are single mothers. and single fathers. They have to do it all for themselves and their children. I have the greatest admiration for you and all others in your situation. sending you one of those hugs((((((tanyaann)))) and one of my lolipops..hope everything gets better for you


Oh! Lolipops fix everything! winking

tanyaann's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:03 AM

Hey Tanya! Hang in there sweetie!! flowerforyou flowerforyou flowers

It's Friday at least!!! I know what you mean though, I have had one of those lives.... We all love you here though! :wink:

Only, I'm not a single mother or father...I can be a single friend! happy


I appreciate your friendship very much! flowerforyou

tanyaann's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:03 AM

Hang in there! flowers :thumbsup: flowers


Thanks! :smile:

Etrain's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:10 AM
Turn that frown upside down my friendbigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

tanyaann's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:12 AM

Turn that frown upside down my friendbigsmile bigsmile bigsmile


OMG!!!! You are back on the site! I called you the other day! What has been up with you?

Etrain's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:14 AM


Turn that frown upside down my friendbigsmile bigsmile bigsmile


OMG!!!! You are back on the site! I called you the other day! What has been up with you?

Ahhhh....just chillin like a villian...sorry I forgot to call you backflowerforyou

tanyaann's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:15 AM



Turn that frown upside down my friendbigsmile bigsmile bigsmile


OMG!!!! You are back on the site! I called you the other day! What has been up with you?

Ahhhh....just chillin like a villian...sorry I forgot to call you backflowerforyou


Don't make me come down there and kick your @ss for forgetting to call back! :tongue:

Meg8771's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:28 AM
Tanya, Quiet, Beach and everyone else having a hard time, I send prayers and hugs to each and every one of you. Everything will be fine soon, I have faith. flowerforyou

I have never met more strong, capable and loving people than I have here on Mingle, which is why I keep comming back. flowers




tanyaann's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:30 AM

Tanya, Quiet, Beach and everyone else having a hard time, I send prayers and hugs to each and every one of you. Everything will be fine soon, I have faith. flowerforyou

I have never met more strong, capable and loving people than I have here on Mingle, which is why I keep comming back. flowers






Thanks, Meg! flowerforyou



(And there was a hint of a deja vu moment :smile:)

AndyBgood's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:47 AM
Well, I live every day thinking how everyone is out to get into my damn wallet. I also feel like I am living a huge lie. It isn't just you. The way things are we are getting a taste of the real human nature.

I also am sick of my income being affected by flakes who are late to pay, people's perpetual excuses, and all the crap people spoon feed me about how they don't have money when they clearly do.

I get hung up more than a coat by other people. I can't even keep a schedule any more. I'm will you. The shi* is flying and there is no where to hide!