My Question has seem to always go un answered because here I am a single man looking for a woman that wants a man that is going to treat her like a woman. I am not a slacker nor am I one of those men who becomes so insecure that he treats a woman like a possession. There are many other men in Pensacola such as myself who are working and getting a higher degree of education in order to make a future. Most women do not see. That they want the thugs or someone who will treat them lesser than they deserve. I want to know why is it that women tend to look over us?

Hey man, I am hearing your post loud and clear. I have been asking myself the same question for years. I dont get it either, but hey some day the right person will fall in your lap. If your like me you wont settle for that girl who will be with pretty much anyone as long as they have money.

Women are very crazy in there ways . I was with a woman for a year and a half .We had issues at the beginning were she left me for another and she came back and i blamed myself for not being at her standards .So i tried to be at her standards being more romantic taking her to places . 2 weeks ago she left again saying same **** as before that yeah i was doing good but not enough. I was unhappy and in a way i wanted it to happen mind you we got marry 2 months ago . So until i find a woman that loves me for me i will stay single . Don't look for it it will come.

Too many "bad" men say they are actually the "good guy" and the women get burnt. So many of the ladies get to the point where we don't see the good ones and by the time we do find them we are "tired" of dating/men/relationships.

Personally... I don't overlook them, I just finally now accept in my life that non exist. Ha ha. Just kidding. There are millions or good men and bad men out there. I am just watching out for that one man who proves to me you all are not the same. Ha ha.

Because a lot of women have low standards that is equal to their self esteem. It isn't that they want a bad boy for the moment, it is that they have nothing to offer to a good man. A good strong woman doesn't want a bad boy that is going to hold her back from achieving the things she wants in her life.

A lot of women tend to be shallow and not look past "things"...but on the other hand there a soooo many men out there saying that they are good guys but they're really not...so it all comes down to being smart and being sincere...if a woman can do both I feel like they ould find good men more often

And for the record...thugs are NOT cute lol

u right their is a lot of men saying their good but not every body is perfect so of course u going to have a flaw in a relationship
i,m not trying to stand up for them type of males but just bec he
say he is a bad person dont make him bec before u thought he was bad
u seen something in him that u like and being that he is a thug or
bad guy u dont like him now lol and dont try to say u know a bad person when u see them bec u never know who is bad or good all i,m saying is just bec u see a flaw in something dont make him a bad person rather it cheating or just plain lying and we all know a relationship are not perfect thats why we have to work on it u know
so it has nothing to do with being bad or females having low standards its us being lazy not trying to put forth the effort thats all

I'm not saying just because someone makes mistakes they are a bad peson...just that they are a bad person for you to be in a relationship with...being a thug in my eyes doesn't make you a bad person but would I date one...prolly not...they just aren't my style. So just because you're not a bad person doesn't make you "relationship material"

hey if I can overlook a man - he must really be short

just kidding

now tell me you're a nice guy right