Adaptaion is necessary in all relationships. When two get married; they
have an amount of getting used to each others ways and adapting to them
in order to have compromise. We must change in some ways, or it becomes
one sided. Thus unhappiness may insue.
Let me be me, and I will let you be you. Then we will take all the rest
and work it in. And if it isn't important, we will throw it aside.
Kat

Well we fall in Love or Like with the person for who they are, as time
goes on and the Relationship grows change does and tends to happen
hopefully this change will make
the bond between the two stronger. Compromise on the small stuff
anything else will fall into place....

I love my wife, and accept her for the way she was then and the way she
is now. I may not like it all the time, but honestly, I don't really
have to. I still love her as much today as I did on April 20th, 2001
when we got married.

Excellent Red, if more people thought like you, there would be fewer
divorces in the world.

Ahhhh, Red! You have got my vote for husband of the year!!
I am too damned old to be changing for anyone...take me as I am or
fugiddaboutit.....I spent to much time trying to be something someone
else wanted me to be....Never again.....

Thanx. I may b*tch a little bit about her, but she's still the best
woman I've EVER had. I know all days ain't gonna be sunshine and songs,
but that's why we say for better or for worse.

I have been alone for a long time but think I would compromise on some
things, but would expect to be accepted for who I am. If I had some
major annoying habits, I would work on them for the other person
(chewing my fingernails or something).

I would compromise by learning to share my blanky, and I would learn to
cook their favorite foods and learn more about what they liked so I
could do little surprises for them.

But, I would also expect them to do the same for me. One thing I would
have a major problem with, but not my fault really, is smoking, and that
is because it makes me cough, don't know if it is an allergy or what,
but cigarette smoke really bothers me physically, so would have problems
with a smoker.

Some compromise is good, but I wouldn't think anyone should go into a
relationship expecting to change anyone, that is ridiculous and doomed
to failure.

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playboy bunny fantasy?...works for me...

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ok

I've tried to hard making friends but no more i'm just going to be
myself and hope for the best

GOOD JP

thumbs up JP!!