So... I seem to have a problem.. or ...something:

I feel as though I turn men gay and/or gravitate gay men to me. My first relationship ended up with my ex boyfriend turning gay and experimenting with guys and such.

My second relationship... though he never came out of the closet.. I am fairly certain that he was and is gay.

The last relationship I was in.. well he didn't officially go gay but he did admit that he used to think that he liked guys...

And while those are the only times that relationships have gone the wrong way.. in the past two days I have two gay guys compliment me.. but it was rather obviously that they were gay.

WHAT THE CRAP? Where are all the straight men? And why can't they compliment me? Not that I don't like gay guys.. but they are into guys so obviously it would never work out =P

Do I have a problem here?

Does anyone have this same issue?

umm...

perhaps you should try to hang with a different crowd. maybe it's just the social circle you happen to find yourself.

and no i haven't had that problem. i long for a gay friend though

I do have quite a few gay and lesbian friends.. but I was with my best friend Meg and two other straight guy friends when I thought I was getting hit on : D
I should have known that no straight man would compliment my style lol.

seems you like the wild side of life...hanging around folks that are or turn gay will be the least of your worries.............pick a new crowd of people to be with.........

Every girl should have a gay guy friend, it's a must............. Think of all the fashion tips you could exchange ( gay guys are good at this) AND they know how to B*TCH ever so well........... I for one would not like to upset them! And no, I do not think the problem lays with you, people are more open and honest about their sexuality now-a-days and society is far more tolerant, just look at "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy."

I'm not even all that wild though. I am actually pretty innocent compared to my friends lol.

my 2 cents is that straight men are useally too shy to talk to you where as gay men have nothing to lose cause they arent picking up on you, i have always been able to pay a compliment to a girl i know, but to someone as beautiful as yourself, i would probally turtle up and say nothing.

I actually do have one fairly decent gay friend. I was actually his "boyfriend" for a night a few months ago lol

But he talks about his drama more than tips or anything lol

Aw.. but guys shouldn't be afraid of talking to me at all. I'm easy to get along with and usually get along with everyone.

But thank you very much for the compliment hun =)
And no! I refuse to allow you to turtle up! Get back out here!

Your just a gay magnet!

The drama bit is the best thing about gay guys.

AH... I wouldn't worry so much about who you hang around with, your friends are YOUR friends.

In my opinion, you seem like a great girl, based on your profile.

the only complaint I have is that you like Dominos and you would prolly pwn my newb @$$ in Halo 3



Gamer Tag: Xlasher

In the words of Sean Connery"Well! then it's the FairMount Hotel" But seriously U do need 2 check yourself & initiate an entirely diff.social circle.Not 2 mention the danger of Aids/Std's that U are leaving yourself vulnerable to.Careful sweetheart.
Godspeed!Cy

but she isn't asking about more friends. she's asking about heterosexual potential suitors

Pssh.. what's wrong with Dominoes?

And bring your newb ass on! : D I am actually at work right now but when I get online tonight around 9 or so.. be ready for a challenge...or.. an ass-whooping. However you want to take it.

So far my ratio for meeting guys on Mingle2 who have Halo 3 and lost to me is 2-0.. meaning I won twice : D and so far no man on here has beat me yet 1 v 1.

Well I do enjoy the whole situation of being good friends with a guy first and then dating him :)

Uhm.. I didn't say I was having sex with gay men =/
I have only had sex with three men in my life and they were all my boyfriends at the time..

unless... the sex is so bad I turn guys gay? : D

Oh lordy...

Aids and Std's is just as prevalent in the "straight" community..........

Caught that...

I am a hetero Male, I was paying her a compliment...

I was also implying that it does not matter what sexual orientation her circle of friends are for finding said suitor.

And the fact that IAreRei is 19 there is plenty of time in the world to find men that are her type. NO reason to force anything.

I would like that, but I am going to be rolling out of here in a few hours for Denver... I have the 360 in the truck, throw ya a friend invite as soon as I can.