So she is trying to better the future for the better of you and you want her to quit just because she made you quit.


Why dont you just go to martial arts when shes at school?

this here is so utterly brilliant i think i'm gonna marry you.

Sweet...and you live where its warm. I'll take your last name if you pay for me to move down there.

HA HA HA HA HA!!!

I'm gonna try to put this in a lil nutshell and IMO only. When 2 people love one another, I mean truly love one another, you support one another's dreams an aspirations. It doesn't matter if it means u have less time together, u treasure the time u do have. It doesn't matter if their dream scares the poop outta u. U support them in whatever way u can an love knowin that what they are doin is bringin them joy an a sense of accomplishment.

Now quit ur d*mn belly achin, pull ur britches up an knock off the nonsense. If u wanna go back to the martial arts & wrestlin. Sit down an talk like 2 grown ups about it.

deal!!!

Im in there like swim wear.

Hey there Artman,
This may be coming a little late. Hopefully everything has blown over and she is no longer upset by the question(s).

I read some of the outrageous replys.

I recently left my job because my other half asked me to. My abitions and dreams have yet again been put on hold. I know that a lot of women would disagree with my decision to allow my husband to put a temporary stop to the matter. (Me working...) But there was a bigger picture.
The thought I had when I read your request for advice was may be she has different views, perspectives. May be there were circumstances, worries she had and asked you to quit.
There is a possibility that she will not see the relevance. She sees her studies as a safe way to a safe career as where your wrestling involved physical contact and literally putting yourself in harms way.

Explain to her that your dreams meant a lot and you gave them up for her. I am sure that if the circumstances of the question were different she would have said yes to you. My advice to you is to let it go. If she is as nice as you say and if the question was made because you were terminally ill and needed her home 24/7 you wouldn't even have to ask.

Much love,
Bea.

Keep it up ...You'll be on here looking for a woman ...not advice.
Be happy she is looking towards a better future.

Hey, Thank you so much I had taken you advice and it really worked out for me and now she understands what I was saying about the hole thing. alot of people just agreed I was wrong insteed of wanting to here the whole story