IN life things are going to happen with or without one...

1/... ARE there things you rather have been told about
than having to learned about them...

2/... ARE there things you rather not have heard,
but were told anyhow...

3/... ARE there things you should have said and did not
or said and wish they were never said out aloud...

4/... IS lying OK to save ones face or another ones pride,
or is it best to say it, as it is and deal with what is to be...

5/... IS honesty always the best policy or is there
a clause that should be added to the "saying"....

1>.....yes and no. I most likely wouldnt have listened anyways, since I like to find out things on my own!!

2. yes

3. Lying is never ok...

4. Honesty is the best policy but there is a thing called tact.

Lying is sometimes okay.


Your friend asks you if you are throwing her a surprise party... you're honest and say yes... and you just ruined everything.

That is a little bit different in the sense that you can come back later and say NOW you know why I had to say that.