i love how girls always post about getting 'creepy' messages from older guys. 'OH! how i wish they wouldn't message me anymore!!' when in reality, theyve only received ONE message or so and decided to start a bit of a ruckus about it.

op looks like shes 12, and honestly, i dont think id message her. id sooner message a 40 year old woman with some class. just cuz you get a message doesnt mean you two are ****ing. its a message bro. click delete, block the user, whatever. just dont flood OUR forums with the same tedious threads over and over again.

thanks.

...and there are plenty of people out there who don't get messaged at all. Might what to be happy with what you get.

oooooohhh... shes a juggalo. better look out or shell get you with her hatchet.

Is this some kind of hatchet-of-truth, or an actual hatchet? I am prepared for one of those. Take your best shot. lol.

It's a fancy word for darwins roadblock.

7z3r05 messaged me a few months ago. i never fully recovered.

Meh, Creeps suck. Just don't look at their balls and move along. If they continue to message you then tell them how much you would like to castrate him with the closest object near you. if that doesn't help then I am sorry you have a stalker. good luck

Juggalo's are waaay to classy for 40 year old men.

i get strange messages all da time, i dont like them as they r a little creepy, i just delete them n block them...........then another one pops up!

is this dang topic still going

I've been emailed by several older men. The problem is that some won't take not interested as actually meaning not interested. Or they act offended when told politely that they are too old for me to date. That's when they start to seem creepy.

For me, I wouldn't say creeps. Just people who don't take too kindly to me when I don't say or do something they're fond of. For example, one guy wanted to add me on MSN on the basis of "your (not you're) pretty". If there's a perfectly functional messaging system here, why should I give my email address otherwise? And when I did add someone on MSN for the heck of it (and will be the only time I will without continuous messages), he blocked me because I wouldn't use a webcam.

I'm not skeptical on the fact there are nice guys here. Just the assumed "creepy" ones sure as hell won't be on these forums giving their insight about them.

I put my settings to which age group could message me to avoid awkward situations like that anyway.

I think over half the women on these sight are pre programmed not to respond...ok i understand that creeps are out there both male and female but what makes a woman not repond to hi,or something real simple and gentleman like..now thats what has me confused (this is a dating site if ya scared of a lil convo dnt log on its that simple!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)

Oh, I'll respond to "Hi" or something like that (>.> Considering on what this site's based on), but if they're the type who can't take the time to form a simple sentence or at least attempt to make a conversation I'm not gonna waste my time with them.

so how do you get someones attention without coming off as a lame,creep,or super thug...beyond hi or hey youre going to look like one of the 3 for sure unless.......................

Try reading their profile and sending an email based on that.

...or just use a filter...

I really am all for breaking norms so that would make me a creep ?

and also it seems her vieuw of creep is anyone over 50 showing interest in her ... so then I wouldnt be a creep

... confused XD

"so how do you get someones attention without coming off as a lame,creep,or super thug...beyond hi or hey youre going to look like one of the 3 for sure unless......................."

simple... if the girl like you... then your not a creep. I've seem friends of mine go up to girls and say really stupid stupid **** such as "I want to touch your hair". Say that to a person you don't know and your a creep, unless your my friend who gets lucky and the girl happen to like him. If a girl likes you it doesnt matter what you say because your cute to her. In any other case it's just easier to call you a creep or whatever.

As a small rule of thumb don't send a picture of your or anyone's dick to a girl and Don't send her more then 2 messages if she doesn't respond. If she does read wtf she wrote and if she keeps it short and simple she's probably not interested and doesnt want to be a *****.

But hey wtf do I know :), i'm just looking to get laid ;) (creep)

Girl get over it..This is a freaking dating site they come in all shapes and sizes. I have seen this thread more times than I can count.. Please clarify "creepy"??