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Topic: Too young to say............
therapy30's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:33 AM
'I do'

marrying young is the end of freedom or it's the start of a lifelong adventure for two ?

Do you think the challenges faced by young married couples are bigger?






lilith401's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:34 AM
Kids are STOOOOOOOOpid.

They have no idea what they want, or what they need. Around 22 or 24 they might start to figure one of those things out... but not both.

Getting married under age 25 is making the marriage twice as hard in my opinion.

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:35 AM
Marriage period at any age is the end of freedom, the beginning of a life sentence, and the number one cause of aneurysms.smokin

7z3r05's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:36 AM
my ex roomie just got married... hes 23. the girl was 20...
they are gonna get bored quick.

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:37 AM
Everyone knows my opinion on marriage:smile:

lilith401's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:38 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Tue 04/07/09 11:38 AM

my ex roomie just got married... hes 23. the girl was 20...
they are gonna get bored quick.


Dang. Did ya all make a pool about when it's going to end?

Did the preacher say, I Charles DuvbfVckhorndog, take you Janie GoaheadfVckmyBFF, to be my first wedded wife, to have and to hold, as long as my buddies aren't around and if your juicy assed BFF comes around I'm tapping that azz.... :tongue:

7z3r05's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:38 AM

Everyone knows my opinion on marriage:smile:


omg so thats what the top of your head looks like...

therapy30's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:38 AM

Kids are STOOOOOOOOpid.

They have no idea what they want, or what they need. Around 22 or 24 they might start to figure one of those things out... but not both.

Getting married under age 25 is making the marriage twice as hard in my opinion.


Lilith, so you don't advocate rushing for marriage at that age ?

even if the feelings are extremely strong.

7z3r05's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:39 AM


my ex roomie just got married... hes 23. the girl was 20...
they are gonna get bored quick.


Dang. Did ya all make a pool about when it's going to end?

Did the preacher say, I Charles DuvbfVckhorndog, take you Janie GoaheadfVckmyBFF, to be my first wedded wife, to have and to hold, as long as my buddies aren't around and if your juicy assed BFF comes around I'm tapping that azz.... :tongue:


ill give em 2 years. if that. i think they are living with her parents too... i gotta start hanging out with cooler people.

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:40 AM
Oooohhh boy

Freedom is definitiy gone

Now I'm free again!

Free at last!
Good god almighty
Free at last!!

therapy30's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:40 AM



my ex roomie just got married... hes 23. the girl was 20...
they are gonna get bored quick.


Dang. Did ya all make a pool about when it's going to end?

Did the preacher say, I Charles DuvbfVckhorndog, take you Janie GoaheadfVckmyBFF, to be my first wedded wife, to have and to hold, as long as my buddies aren't around and if your juicy assed BFF comes around I'm tapping that azz.... :tongue:


ill give em 2 years. if that. i think they are living with her parents too... i gotta start hanging out with cooler people.


Sounds like child's marriage:smile:

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:41 AM


Everyone knows my opinion on marriage:smile:


omg so thats what the top of your head looks like...



bigsmile Yes, a full head of hairbigsmile

lilith401's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:41 AM

Lilith, so you don't advocate rushing for marriage at that age ?

even if the feelings are extremely strong.


If they are that strong they can wait to get married. And get marriage counseling. It should be a requirement to get a marriage license.

Oh, and finally, if you cheat on someone, DON'T get married as a result. DON'T. It should be ILLEGAL. Second marriages that start in infidelity have this ridiculous success rate, like 6% or something. Abuot the same as sobriety from methamphetamines.

7z3r05's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:42 AM




my ex roomie just got married... hes 23. the girl was 20...
they are gonna get bored quick.


Dang. Did ya all make a pool about when it's going to end?

Did the preacher say, I Charles DuvbfVckhorndog, take you Janie GoaheadfVckmyBFF, to be my first wedded wife, to have and to hold, as long as my buddies aren't around and if your juicy assed BFF comes around I'm tapping that azz.... :tongue:


ill give em 2 years. if that. i think they are living with her parents too... i gotta start hanging out with cooler people.


Sounds like child's marriage:smile:


yeah. he asked me what i thought before he popped the q. i lied to him. hes still my friend, but i knew it was a bad choice. but to quote cool-hand luke - some people you just cant reach.

7z3r05's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:42 AM



Everyone knows my opinion on marriage:smile:


omg so thats what the top of your head looks like...



bigsmile Yes, a full head of hairbigsmile


dammit. i am envious.

nikita5's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:43 AM
I think marriage is challenging no matter what age you are.If you marry young you need to make sure your with someone that will grow and change with you so that you do not grow apart.If you marry when you are older you need to be with someone who completely accepts you as you are ,and does not want you to be something you are not.It takes effort from both people to make it work and to not take eachother for granted

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:45 AM




Everyone knows my opinion on marriage:smile:


omg so thats what the top of your head looks like...



bigsmile Yes, a full head of hairbigsmile


dammit. i am envious.



I already got an email today about my hair, telling me to put my base ball cap back on, It was funnylaugh

7z3r05's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:46 AM





Everyone knows my opinion on marriage:smile:


omg so thats what the top of your head looks like...



bigsmile Yes, a full head of hairbigsmile


dammit. i am envious.



I already got an email today about my hair, telling me to put my base ball cap back on, It was funnylaugh


nah. go with the carnhart. you look hardcore with it on.

Emily1117's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:47 AM

I think marriage is challenging no matter what age you are.If you marry young you need to make sure your with someone that will grow and change with you so that you do not grow apart.If you marry when you are older you need to be with someone who completely accepts you as you are ,and does not want you to be something you are not.It takes effort from both people to make it work and to not take eachother for granted


Yep..totally agree drinker

DragonFlyTat's photo
Tue 04/07/09 11:47 AM
I got married at 19 and he was 26. I would have gotten to know more about him and his habit if I could change anything. However, he was the love of my life and I wouldn't have changed that and the children that we have together. We struggled at such a young age financially but we had so much love for each other. By the way his birthday is April 9th and he would have been 47 this year. I miss him sooooo much.

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