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I met a lady and traded mail for over a month.
She asked, and I explained of an auto accident I was in, " and since then" NOTHING....as if I dont even exist anymore ! ...so should I continue being honest or turn into a liar and deceve everyone I meet ? 
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It's always best to be honest from the get-go...not all people in this world are shallow...keep yer head up...& to thine own self be true...
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 be yourself,an INDIVIDUAL...if people don't like you that is their problem not yours and you are probably a better person than some of the shallow people you will meet be seeing you
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You folks are RIGHT !...
I juwt need to clean off the dust and go forward !! Thanks alot
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No be honest
Do not let others jade you! |
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oop's....being blind seems to be almost impossable to hit the right button sometimes !
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mesquitemade1, I,ve been knocked down, stood up, knocked down again more time than most. My girlfriend could not handle the injuries I had when I got back from Viet Nam. I like what you said about going forward.......Keep going forward, backward is yesterday and thats gone. Have fun on this place and let people know who you are.
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And just why in the world would U lower your standards thus diminishing your character?Over a date that did not turn out so well.Are they all supposed to?Ummm!realistically speaking that is.So U chalk this up as a learning experience & move on & forward.You should never change who "U"are for anyone or anything for that matter.Stay pos.& look forward to your next date & experiences.Live & prosper though positive change not (-).(imo)Godspeed!Cy
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I'm raising a little boy I adopted who was born with Down syndrome, two holes in his heart, and two holes in one eye (iris and retina coloboma). Focus on your abilities and don't let negative thinking of others pull you down.
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It's a good thing you found out not that she 's not worth your while now, stay honest man, it's the only way to be.
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People are scared of things, of the unknown, of themselves, of the true horror of learning they do not possess the character they thought they had. Or pretend to have, at times.
I hope you know her behavior is hers, and had nothing to do with you. I'm sorry. |
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I warn my first dates that I am not going to pretend that I am someone who is not gonna fart or scratch himself, just to get in their pants. I am strangely successful with this, even when I am trying to get out of the date.
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Cliche yes... but Honesty is always the best policy.
Sorry things didn't work out, but don't ever resort to dishonesty to find love. You will both be hurt even more eventually. |
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Mesquite,
I am sorry that you were let down by this person. Keep your chin up and you will find someone who is worthy to be your special person. Just be yourself, because you never know, the one that falls for you might not fall for the one you pretend to be.
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Definitely be honest. There are nice, genuine people that exist, and we shouldn't have to waste our times with those that aren't.
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Be honest, I am sorry that happened to you.
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Never let one person force you to change who you are for the worst. You give her too much power if you do. It's always best to be honest; you weed out the ones that are not right for you. You want the RIGHT one and obviously she isn't it. So you only wasted a month, no big deal. At least now you've narrowed down the list of possibilities by one. Just shrug it off and go on and be you. The RIGHT one will appreciate you for it.
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I met a lady and traded mail for over a month. She asked, and I explained of an auto accident I was in, " and since then" NOTHING....as if I dont even exist anymore ! ...so should I continue being honest or turn into a liar and deceve everyone I meet ?
I know it hurts right now, yet sit down and thank your lucky stars that you escaped this woman. Before I go any further has she read your emails... Now I say honesty is the best policy since if you are honest you know in your heart you did the best you could and there will be someone out there for you. |
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I met a lady and traded mail for over a month. She asked, and I explained of an auto accident I was in, " and since then" NOTHING....as if I dont even exist anymore ! ...so should I continue being honest or turn into a liar and deceve everyone I meet ?
What happened to you in the auto accident?
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hey MirrorMirror. yesterday you asked what happened in the accident. Well, I crushed my face , broke my neck, seperated shoulder and hip, broke some ribs and punctured a lung, crushed my left ankle, wound up with this stuff called H.O. { which is a calcium deposite issue }, lost 98% of my sight, and had a traumatic brain injury....not to mention loosing my sense of smell, whis good cause my poot's can make the paint peel-}...lol
Thanks for asking, Take care !
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