Your welcome, sweet Tulip

Ok..

Women are looking for a guy who will show up when he says he's going to
show up...

A guy who might be available to change a tire...

Who will make an effort to be romantic once in awhile...



And he LIVES NEARBY!!!!!

the near by thing killes me everytime

I can tell you right now what women are looking for, from my
perspective........

Honesty, No lying, No cheaters.........Someone who's up front with you
no matter what....And doesn't beat around the bush about certain
things..............I could go on and on and on...That's the type of
mood I'm in right now, but I don't want to take it out on you
guys...........Sorry for my little rant. It's my first one, so be
gentle.

Ok, Arabella. I'm not going too touch that one, as I do not want to get
into an argument.

Hi, newbie here. Wolf, nothing wrong with your profile. I do know
there needs to be some sort of chemistry or it is no go for me.
However, in this superficial world it is so hard to tell by just looking
at someones picture. Mine seems to scare them away in droves. :)

they are looking for me

SA11, Nothing wrong with your pic, dont see why it would scare anyone
away.

Thanks. Walker are you a modern day pirate?

I'm a multitask person.
I can be several things depending on the circumstances.

Cool deal.

Moondoggie, I wouldnt be looking for a long term relationship, if I
wasn't one too comit.

Arabella, The Queen,

I think that sometimes neither one truly knows what they are looking
for, until it walks away.. Then we begin to understand...
Love and dating is give & take, compromises and forgiveness...
Sacrifice and determination... Communication is VERY Important..

Say what you mean & mean what you say... Most guys and Gals are not
mind readers... Guys want to rescue you, if you want us to just listen,
then sometimes you need to tell us that at the start..

I tend to be kind, loving and an old fashion romantic at heart..

I KNOW there is someone out there just for me... It is just hard to
wait sometimes...

Well, I think I've said enough..

A BIG HEY YA'LL to All my Friends..

Well, it seems it all boils down too Age, Distance, Bank account, just
as I tought at the begaining.It doesnt seem too realy matter that I am
honest, careing, affectionate, easy going, not afraid of commitment,
loyal, a one woman man that can cook, bake and put the toilet set down
and does not want too change a person. So in 20 years or so, I can post
the same question and everything will still be the same.

I do thank you all for your input and wish you all better luck than I am
having. Please free too continue posting here,

awwwwwwwwww


Hal is that what you gathered from your lovely topic



I seen alot of diverse answers.

To be absolutely honest, women are like men, they don't really know what
they want in another person until it is right in front of them. At least
the grown up ones are. We are all looking for different reasons, and for
different things.

You still have the women with the fairytale fantasies of prince charming
coming and rescuing them. It seldom works out, because they see the
flaws, or the relationship turns boring. Life is not meant to be
perfect.

Then you have the ones that find a man and try to change everything
about him. You know the ones that go for the guys with the bad boy
image. They like some of the things in the guys and try to change other
things about him. They don't realize they were attracted to him for the
way he was to begin with. You really can't change a person, only the
person can change their ways when they want to. If they do change their
ways, you don't want them anymore because of the person they became.

You also have the women that doesn't want someone until a another woman
shows interest in the guy. It is like they are trying to win a prize. It
is a competition thing and they lose interest when they win, because
there is no longer any competitors.

Men are the same in most of these things. Generally there is nothing
wrong with you, it is just that you are not a pawn in their game. In the
end, most female end up with is a male that has the same attributes that
their father has, and most males with the female that has the same
attributes that their mother had. Go figure we are really looking for
what we were used to in our environment while growing up.

I want too clarify one thinh, when I mention bank account, Ity is not
how much money I have, but in the profiles about what their interests
are, they have things like Travel, some in this country and others want
too see the world. Otheres like to go to live broadway shows, some want
you to drive an expensive car, some even state hwt a match should be
making in a yrear, one I saw, she wanted her match too make at least
$150,000 a year, while she had noincome. all those things cost money and
with the price of gas now, it costs even more. now I am not saying they
are all gold diggers, but I have too face reality, if that is what they
want to do, then I am not a good catch., I guess

I know EXACTLY what I'm looking for. First of all, I want someone with
whom I share a mutual attraction. That's a given, I think.

After that's out of the way...

I want a man who believes as strongly about integrity and faithfulness
and loyalty and honor as much as I do.

I want a man who understands that COMMITMENT does not mean looking at
porn, does not mean reading Playboys in the bathroom, does not mean
visiting strip clubs and sure as HELL does not mean sleeping with anyone
else.

If he thinks that there is any lenience in that regard, he is welcome to
hit the road. A commitment is a commitment; it's not license to have
your cake and eat it, too.

I want a man who is as happy to see me as I would be to see him when we
wake up in the morning or when we see each other after work..whenever.

I want a man whom I feel safe and secure with.

I want a man who will work at least as hard as I do. I'm not going to
bust my ass while he sits on the couch.

I want a man who doesn't drink or smoke but ..if he's otherwise a really
good guy, I'll let him smoke on the porch. LOL.

I want a man who truly wants a woman in his life to LOVE him, not just
because he needs someone to do laundry and cook for him.

I want a man who is my confidante, my mentor, my lover, my best friend.

And I want a man who can service me at my whim.

woohoo!

He is handsome, strong, youthful, virile, polite, is not a wimp or wishy
washy, but is not overbearing.

He will know what he's SUPPOSED to do in a relationship; he won't need
to be told what to do. As a MAN he'll know what it takes to do his part
to make us both happy. And he'll let me do my part to make us both
happy.

He'll believe in God and have an appreciation for animals and nature.
He'll think littering is abhorrent behavior.

Basically, he's just a good guy who has his priorities in order. That's
what I'm looking for.

all i want is for a man to understand me and hold me/my hand and never
lie to me....i want someone who i can talk to about anything and he will
listen and talk too. i want someone who will love me at my weakest and
tell me im beautiful not hot and just love me for who i am