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I'd Like to add to my first reply, I see your only eight years younger than I am and don't know why I haven't seen you before? Your very sexy and you have a right to be choosey so does she still get the 3 date minimum??????????????? Good question and good to see you have my back |
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I'd Like to add to my first reply, I see your only eight years younger than I am and don't know why I haven't seen you before? Your very sexy and you have a right to be choosey so does she still get the 3 date minimum??????????????? Good question and good to see you have my back Kinda hung himself with that one... didnt he?? |
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I'd Like to add to my first reply, I see your only eight years younger than I am and don't know why I haven't seen you before? Your very sexy and you have a right to be choosey so does she still get the 3 date minimum??????????????? Good question and good to see you have my back Kinda hung himself with that one... didnt he?? *grin* Well since he didn't say he was asking me out I say he gets a pass on this one~ |
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You shouldn't have to put up with feeling uncomfortable. I don't like that he didn't talk to you for a whole week, to see how you were or anything.
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don't go,he's probably a dirtbag...am i the only gentleman left in the world? be seeing you
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O.K. So I have been talking to this gentleman and I do use the term loosely on here and on the phone for several weeks. We were supposed to have our first "date" today. On Monday we had words because I told him I wasn't comfortable with all his blatantly sexual remarks and that he shouldn't take it or me for granted that just because I agreed to go out that there would be sex involved. After said conversation I didn't hear from him all week. This morning he sends me a message on yahoo saying he can't wait to meet me. Is it just me or am I wrong for not wanting to go now? |
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If I was ignored for week that would be a sign to me that i wasn't important enough to keep in contact and it would be a done deal
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OH my friend I was wondering which way you were going to go with this one.
I think you made the right decision. I think the variable to me would have been if he immediately apologized for he had done and kept the line of communication open. I remmember my grandfather stating once. A man has aright to ask and a woman has the right to say no thank you. This just shows me that this guy doesn't deserve you.. I am like you, I am very upfront and honest about I don't do casual sex no exceptions to the rule. So I have run across a time or two where I am faced with similiar issues like you. Just rebait and throw the line in the water again... Who knows what you get the next time. |
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OH my friend I was wondering which way you were going to go with this one. I think you made the right decision. I think the variable to me would have been if he immediately apologized for he had done and kept the line of communication open. I remmember my grandfather stating once. A man has aright to ask and a woman has the right to say no thank you. This just shows me that this guy doesn't deserve you.. I am like you, I am very upfront and honest about I don't do casual sex no exceptions to the rule. So I have run across a time or two where I am faced with similiar issues like you. Just rebait and throw the line in the water again... Who knows what you get the next time. Well now you know the rest of the story *grin* |
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O.K. So I have been talking to this gentleman and I do use the term loosely on here and on the phone for several weeks. We were supposed to have our first "date" today. On Monday we had words because I told him I wasn't comfortable with all his blatantly sexual remarks and that he shouldn't take it or me for granted that just because I agreed to go out that there would be sex involved. After said conversation I didn't hear from him all week. This morning he sends me a message on yahoo saying he can't wait to meet me. Is it just me or am I wrong for not wanting to go now? |
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Another loser weeded out, and you didn't even have to kiss the frog.
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O.K. So I have been talking to this gentleman and I do use the term loosely on here and on the phone for several weeks. We were supposed to have our first "date" today. On Monday we had words because I told him I wasn't comfortable with all his blatantly sexual remarks and that he shouldn't take it or me for granted that just because I agreed to go out that there would be sex involved. After said conversation I didn't hear from him all week. This morning he sends me a message on yahoo saying he can't wait to meet me. Is it just me or am I wrong for not wanting to go now? If the dude's creepin' you out, he's creepin' you out- that's all there is to it. And if you aren't comfortable with his creepin' you out, then you should probably not even bother with going out to meet him. |
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If I was ignored for week that would be a sign to me that i wasn't important enough to keep in contact and it would be a done deal |
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O.K. So I have been talking to this gentleman and I do use the term loosely on here and on the phone for several weeks. We were supposed to have our first "date" today. On Monday we had words because I told him I wasn't comfortable with all his blatantly sexual remarks and that he shouldn't take it or me for granted that just because I agreed to go out that there would be sex involved. After said conversation I didn't hear from him all week. This morning he sends me a message on yahoo saying he can't wait to meet me. Is it just me or am I wrong for not wanting to go now? I`m so proud of you fiesty. Stick to your gut feeling aka womans intuition. I think he will get the message of take a flying leap (keeping it clean out of respect for you) when you don`t go. The guy is a blanking dirtbag and should be treated like such. You are way too classy to be treated like that. Bottom line my dear friend. Stick to your guns. You are one in a million girl. (((fiestybaby))) |
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O.K. So I have been talking to this gentleman and I do use the term loosely on here and on the phone for several weeks. We were supposed to have our first "date" today. On Monday we had words because I told him I wasn't comfortable with all his blatantly sexual remarks and that he shouldn't take it or me for granted that just because I agreed to go out that there would be sex involved. After said conversation I didn't hear from him all week. This morning he sends me a message on yahoo saying he can't wait to meet me. Is it just me or am I wrong for not wanting to go now? I`m so proud of you fiesty. Stick to your gut feeling aka womans intuition. I think he will get the message of take a flying leap (keeping it clean out of respect for you) when you don`t go. The guy is a blanking dirtbag and should be treated like such. You are way too classy to be treated like that. Bottom line my dear friend. Stick to your guns. You are one in a million girl. (((fiestybaby))) Rara you are my hero!!!!!! Thank you for the kind words!!!!! Update Man in question tried to call me several times yesterday. I proceeded to ignore him. I held on to both my dignity and my temper lol |
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O.K. So I have been talking to this gentleman and I do use the term loosely on here and on the phone for several weeks. We were supposed to have our first "date" today. On Monday we had words because I told him I wasn't comfortable with all his blatantly sexual remarks and that he shouldn't take it or me for granted that just because I agreed to go out that there would be sex involved. After said conversation I didn't hear from him all week. This morning he sends me a message on yahoo saying he can't wait to meet me. Is it just me or am I wrong for not wanting to go now? I`m so proud of you fiesty. Stick to your gut feeling aka womans intuition. I think he will get the message of take a flying leap (keeping it clean out of respect for you) when you don`t go. The guy is a blanking dirtbag and should be treated like such. You are way too classy to be treated like that. Bottom line my dear friend. Stick to your guns. You are one in a million girl. (((fiestybaby))) Rara you are my hero!!!!!! Thank you for the kind words!!!!! Update Man in question tried to call me several times yesterday. I proceeded to ignore him. I held on to both my dignity and my temper lol |
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