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![]() so does she still get the 3 date minimum??????????????? Good question and good to see you have my back ![]() ![]() |
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![]() so does she still get the 3 date minimum??????????????? Good question and good to see you have my back ![]() ![]() Kinda hung himself with that one... didnt he?? |
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![]() so does she still get the 3 date minimum??????????????? Good question and good to see you have my back ![]() ![]() Kinda hung himself with that one... didnt he?? *grin* Well since he didn't say he was asking me out I say he gets a pass on this one~ |
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You shouldn't have to put up with feeling uncomfortable. I don't like that he didn't talk to you for a whole week, to see how you were or anything.
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O.K. So I have been talking to this gentleman and I do use the term loosely on here and on the phone for several weeks. We were supposed to have our first "date" today. On Monday we had words because I told him I wasn't comfortable with all his blatantly sexual remarks and that he shouldn't take it or me for granted that just because I agreed to go out that there would be sex involved. After said conversation I didn't hear from him all week. This morning he sends me a message on yahoo saying he can't wait to meet me. Is it just me or am I wrong for not wanting to go now? ![]() |
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OH my friend I was wondering which way you were going to go with this one.
I think you made the right decision. I think the variable to me would have been if he immediately apologized for he had done and kept the line of communication open. I remmember my grandfather stating once. A man has aright to ask and a woman has the right to say no thank you. This just shows me that this guy doesn't deserve you.. I am like you, I am very upfront and honest about I don't do casual sex no exceptions to the rule. So I have run across a time or two where I am faced with similiar issues like you. Just rebait and throw the line in the water again... Who knows what you get the next time. |
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OH my friend I was wondering which way you were going to go with this one. I think you made the right decision. I think the variable to me would have been if he immediately apologized for he had done and kept the line of communication open. I remmember my grandfather stating once. A man has aright to ask and a woman has the right to say no thank you. This just shows me that this guy doesn't deserve you.. I am like you, I am very upfront and honest about I don't do casual sex no exceptions to the rule. So I have run across a time or two where I am faced with similiar issues like you. Just rebait and throw the line in the water again... Who knows what you get the next time. Well now you know the rest of the story *grin* |
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O.K. So I have been talking to this gentleman and I do use the term loosely on here and on the phone for several weeks. We were supposed to have our first "date" today. On Monday we had words because I told him I wasn't comfortable with all his blatantly sexual remarks and that he shouldn't take it or me for granted that just because I agreed to go out that there would be sex involved. After said conversation I didn't hear from him all week. This morning he sends me a message on yahoo saying he can't wait to meet me. Is it just me or am I wrong for not wanting to go now? ![]() ![]() |
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Another loser weeded out, and you didn't even have to kiss the frog.
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O.K. So I have been talking to this gentleman and I do use the term loosely on here and on the phone for several weeks. We were supposed to have our first "date" today. On Monday we had words because I told him I wasn't comfortable with all his blatantly sexual remarks and that he shouldn't take it or me for granted that just because I agreed to go out that there would be sex involved. After said conversation I didn't hear from him all week. This morning he sends me a message on yahoo saying he can't wait to meet me. Is it just me or am I wrong for not wanting to go now? If the dude's creepin' you out, he's creepin' you out- that's all there is to it. And if you aren't comfortable with his creepin' you out, then you should probably not even bother with going out to meet him. |
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O.K. So I have been talking to this gentleman and I do use the term loosely on here and on the phone for several weeks. We were supposed to have our first "date" today. On Monday we had words because I told him I wasn't comfortable with all his blatantly sexual remarks and that he shouldn't take it or me for granted that just because I agreed to go out that there would be sex involved. After said conversation I didn't hear from him all week. This morning he sends me a message on yahoo saying he can't wait to meet me. Is it just me or am I wrong for not wanting to go now? I`m so proud of you fiesty. Stick to your gut feeling aka womans intuition. I think he will get the message of take a flying leap (keeping it clean out of respect for you) when you don`t go. The guy is a blanking dirtbag and should be treated like such. You are way too classy to be treated like that. Bottom line my dear friend. Stick to your guns. You are one in a million girl. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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O.K. So I have been talking to this gentleman and I do use the term loosely on here and on the phone for several weeks. We were supposed to have our first "date" today. On Monday we had words because I told him I wasn't comfortable with all his blatantly sexual remarks and that he shouldn't take it or me for granted that just because I agreed to go out that there would be sex involved. After said conversation I didn't hear from him all week. This morning he sends me a message on yahoo saying he can't wait to meet me. Is it just me or am I wrong for not wanting to go now? I`m so proud of you fiesty. Stick to your gut feeling aka womans intuition. I think he will get the message of take a flying leap (keeping it clean out of respect for you) when you don`t go. The guy is a blanking dirtbag and should be treated like such. You are way too classy to be treated like that. Bottom line my dear friend. Stick to your guns. You are one in a million girl. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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O.K. So I have been talking to this gentleman and I do use the term loosely on here and on the phone for several weeks. We were supposed to have our first "date" today. On Monday we had words because I told him I wasn't comfortable with all his blatantly sexual remarks and that he shouldn't take it or me for granted that just because I agreed to go out that there would be sex involved. After said conversation I didn't hear from him all week. This morning he sends me a message on yahoo saying he can't wait to meet me. Is it just me or am I wrong for not wanting to go now? I`m so proud of you fiesty. Stick to your gut feeling aka womans intuition. I think he will get the message of take a flying leap (keeping it clean out of respect for you) when you don`t go. The guy is a blanking dirtbag and should be treated like such. You are way too classy to be treated like that. Bottom line my dear friend. Stick to your guns. You are one in a million girl. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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