Bring it on

It depends on the woman, but generally it is a turn on to feel wanted...

I'm not really into aggressive women, probably just a bad taste left in my mouth after dating a very aggressive female rugby player with borderline multiple personality disorder. Assertive, on the other hand, i'm all for.

Sigh. I'm very assertive. I'm not at all aggressive. I do wish I lived in Agrestic, though.....

Oh, and from personal experience, men DO NOT LIKE assertive OR aggressive women. We are not green eggs and ham .....
They will say they do until they are blue in the face. Then continue to say this is what they want. It's not what they need though. Truth is, men need to be needed and they want to be protective and comforting to their vulnerable woman. Sad but true. It's a difficult balance.

(ok I realize there might be 2% of men this doesn't apply towards. I am generalizing)

My only requirements? Smarter than me and not shy.

You're probably out of luck on the 'smarter than you' part.

it's 2009 i have no problem with assertive women...if a woman wants to ask me out in the "real world" or drop me an e-mail on here i am ok with that...all i ask is that she be intelligent,cultured and sane be seeing you

That's a tall order (J/K)

That was very sweet, Andy. But I know it's possible....dated one recently, he just turned out to be clinically depressed. Sigh....

Besides, I'm gonna wear Lexy down on the kid thing soon, then he'll be mine!