Topic: Have you ever been into Toxic Friendship ???? | |
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Isent that the stage between engagement and marriage......... |
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Have you landed yourself with a friend who drains your self-esteem, confidence, social life or bank account? and whats your detox for such kind of friends ??? Good Morning everyone. Have a winning day Most of my "toxic" friendships turned into "toxic" relationships which turned into "toxic" breakups which turned into where I am now...So I have no idea |
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Have you landed yourself with a friend who drains your self-esteem, confidence, social life or bank account? and whats your detox for such kind of friends ??? Good Morning everyone. Have a winning day Most of my "toxic" friendships turned into "toxic" relationships which turned into "toxic" breakups which turned into where I am now...So I have no idea just wondering, how a toxic friendship developed into a relationship. Anyway, I am not thinking anymore.....very toxic for my mind. |
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Cheers Therapy30, Self awareness is golden!
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Edited by
therapy30
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Tue 03/31/09 12:50 PM
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Cheers Therapy30, Self awareness is golden! yeah right..stage 1, stage 2, stage 3 |
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I am happy this subject came up, because I still have problems with two female and we use to hang out years ago and now I know why I have out grow them, because they are still two faces and jealous. I am thinking about changing my phone number. I tell you some people can dain the hell out of you, if you let them. I no longer deal with my sister and I try to, but it did not work. She is jealous of me, she lied on me, call social service on me, because I will nat give her any money( Yes, I am a good parent and I take care of my business) and the list goes on with her. I believe she have an mental problem. Right now I don't have any friends and I rather be alone then to surround myself with silly people. Besides I rather have men friends, because you just can't get alone with some of these females and that is my opinion. Oh yeah, I just cut their azz loose.
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I am still learning on having distance with people that aren't healthy for me, it seems that I attract all the needy as they feed off my strength and in return drain me.. Someone used the terminology of weeding, saying that I needed to sit down and weed the people out of my life didn't mean I couldn't help others out but they had to also be willing to help themselves... I sit back and think how many I have helped and when I needed help no one was around.. It really allowed me to see the type of people I was allowing to befriend me...
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Several. That's why I glow in the dark..,.
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Edited by
Sandcrab
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Tue 03/31/09 02:31 PM
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I am happy this subject came up, because I still have problems with two female and we use to hang out years ago and now I know why I have out grow them, because they are still two faces and jealous. I am thinking about changing my phone number. I tell you some people can dain the hell out of you, if you let them. I no longer deal with my sister and I try to, but it did not work. She is jealous of me, she lied on me, call social service on me, because I will nat give her any money( Yes, I am a good parent and I take care of my business) and the list goes on with her. I believe she have an mental problem. Right now I don't have any friends and I rather be alone then to surround myself with silly people. Besides I rather have men friends, because you just can't get alone with some of these females and that is my opinion. Oh yeah, I just cut their azz loose. |
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Have you landed yourself with a friend who drains your self-esteem, confidence, social life or bank account? and whats your detox for such kind of friends ??? Good Morning everyone. Have a winning day Yeah. I've had dealings with people like that in some way or another. Heck- I've even had relationships with girlfriends who were like that in some way. It ain't fun under any circumstances. I usually deal with them by NOT dealing with them- they usually get thrown out on their ass at some point. |
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